這些跡象表明:現任男友就是你的靈魂伴侶
1.) He likes the quirky person that you are and would never want you to change
1.) 他喜歡精靈古怪的你，從不希望你改變Everyone is quirky when it comes right down to it. You might not think of yourself as quirky, but you are, and that's the reason why your boyfriend is so attracted to you. You're special and fascinating and there are so many things about you that he thinks are just the coolest.
對的時候遇上對的人，你就會變得古怪。你可能並不覺得自己古怪，但你就是這樣的人兒，這也是你十分吸引男朋友的點。你是獨一無二的、魅力無限的，他覺得你有很多很酷的地方。When you want to be sure that this guy is your soulmate, here's one big reason: he likes the quirky person that you are and would never want you to change. He never says anything negative about your appearance or your personality or the decisions that you make in life.
當你想確定他是不是你的靈魂伴侶時，請參考這一重要因素：他喜歡古靈精怪的你，從不希望你改變。他從不對你的外表或性格或你所做的關於生活的決定做出負面評價。
If you want to stop eating gluten, he's right there with you. Maybe he goes gluten-free as well or maybe he just makes sure to stock the fridge and pantry with gluten-free foods when he does the grocery shopping… and he always tells friends and family that you've made this choice and that you need gluten-free food to eat.
如果你不想吃麩質飲食，他就在那兒陪着你。也許他也會嘗試無麩質飲食，或者在購物的時候多屯些無麩質食品，放滿冰箱……而且他會經常提醒朋友和家人，你已經做出無麩質飲食的決定，讓他們準備無麩質食品。
2.) He never ever makes fun of you
2.) 他從不取笑你When your boyfriend makes fun of you for whatever reason, even if he just thinks that he's being hilarious and that it's totally harmless, that's never a good thing. You should never stay with someone who does that because it's just not compassionate or loving or respectful, and you don't need that.
當你的男朋友因爲某個原因而取笑你時，即使只是因爲他覺得很滑稽而且不會造成任何傷害，這種做法也絕非好事。如果他這麼做了，千萬別和他在一起，因爲這表明他沒有同情心、沒有愛心、不尊重人，你可不需要這樣的男朋友！You know that he's a soulmate when he never, ever makes fun of you. He thinks that you're the best person that he's ever met. He thinks that you're the most interesting person that he's ever met. And he can't believe that he gets to spend his life with you.
如果他從未取笑過你，那他就是你的靈魂伴侶了。他覺得你是他所遇到過的最美好的人。他覺得你是他所遇到過的最有趣的人。餘生有你相伴，他覺得自己積了福。Those are the things that you want him to feel about you, right? You don't want him to think that your goals or dreams or the way that you live your life is a laughing matter. You want his full support and love, and that's what you deserve.
你希望他能有這些感受，是不是？你希望他不會認爲你的目標、夢想或你的生活方式是一個笑柄。你希望他全力支持你、愛護你，這是你應得的。3.) He does nice things without being asked
3.) 即使你不說，他也會做一些善意的舉動It's totally a sign if he buys you flowers or chocolate or brings home a pizza when you had a bad day at work… and you didn't even mention this to him at all.
如果你上班很累，而他回來的時候會買上一束花或一盒巧克力或一份披薩（即使你沒有跟他要求），這一跡象絕對錶明他是你的靈魂伴侶。
