四大跡象表明你的丈夫對你們的情感關係百分百滿意
You know your husband is dedicated to you and your family-he works hard, plays bAll in the backyard and generally treats you great-but you can't help but wonder if he's really, truly happy in your marriage.
你知道你的丈夫對你和家人都十分投入--他工作努力、在後院踢球、總體上來說對你也很好--但你還是會忍不住想要知道他在你們的婚姻關係中是否真的很快樂。Now check out these secret behaviors that signal the both of you are happy as clams.
現在讓我們來看看這些隱藏的、暗示着你們倆都非常快樂的行爲。1. He still remembers to thank you for taking care of the laundry.
1. 他仍然會對你負責洗衣服這件事表示感謝。
Cause Lord knows if you left separating the whites and darks up to him, there'd likely be a few batches of clothes ruined. But he doesn't take it for granted, nor is he shy about voicing that appreciation. "It says more than just gratitude, it shows respect," says Megan Bearce, sex and relationship expert. "It's easy to forget, but taking the time to give a little praise goes a long way toward strengthening the relationship."
因爲老天爺知道：如果你把區分黑白衣服這件事交付給他，那麼這些衣服就會被毀了。但他既不會認爲你洗衣服是件理所當然的事，也不會羞於表達他對你的感謝。"這不僅僅表現了他對你的感謝，還表示了他對你的尊重，" Megan Bearce說道。她是性情感專家。"人們很容易就會忽略這件事，但是花時間表揚自己的老婆會大大加強你們的關係。"
2. When the in-laws visit, he doesn't put all the planning on your plate.
2. 當岳父岳母來訪時，他不會讓你一個人忙前忙後。Your guy works with you to find good deals for family-friendly activities, will defend you when his mom makes subtle jabs, and definitely buys the right amount of lemons needed for dinner (a lesson he learned from The Breakup, obviously).
如果你的丈夫願意幫助你，並覺得家庭活動十分有趣，那麼當你和他媽媽拌嘴時，他會站在你這一邊，而且一定會買到晚餐所需要的正確檸檬數量（顯然，他是從《分手男女》這部電影中學會的）。3. He doesn't bring up the one awful thing you did ten years ago in the middle of an argument.
3. 爭吵時，他不會提及你多年前做過的糟糕之事。All couples fight, but if you and your husband make a point to avoid degrading remarks, and do your best not to place blame, then it's clear you both value each other's opinion and needs. "Even when the going gets rough, he's willing to share the burden and work as a team with you," says Dr. Kat.
所有的夫妻都會爭吵，但如果你和你的丈夫堅決不說一些侮辱人格的話語、並盡力不去指責對方，那麼很顯然你們倆都尊重彼此的意見和需要。"即使很艱難，他也願意與你分享他的負擔，跟你一起努力。"凱特醫生說道。4. Locker room talk about you isn't negative.
4. 他與夥伴們談及你時，不會說你壞話A man needs to vent too, and if he's unhappy in a relationship he won't hold back on vocalizing how much you nag him. But if your husband knows he's got a good thing, he won't be joining in these group conversations. "A man who is happy in his marriage will do his best to turn the conversation to something else, or will say something complimentary or vague instead of something that sheds you in a negative light," says Dr. Kat.
男人也需要發泄，但如果他對你們的感情狀況不滿意的話，他並不會阻止你對他嘮嘮叨叨。但如果有件好事，他也不會加入到這些團體對話中。"婚姻中幸福的男性會盡力岔開話題，他不會說你不好，相反他可能會說一些讚頌你亦或是含糊其辭的話語，"凱特醫生說道。
