這些跡象表明他對你越來越認真

For some couples, it can be weeks or months before they put any kind of label on it. Maybe you’re in a situation where things started out casual and your feelings crept up on you. Or that window where you clarify that things are now serious somehow came and went, and things just feel awkward. Or maybe you’re just on the cusp and neither one of you wants to blow up the status quo so you both just play it cool.

對於一些CP（情侶）來說，給一段感情貼上標籤可能需要幾周或幾個月。也許你正處於這種情境：剛開始事情發展的很隨意，但你對他/她的感覺卻越來越強烈了。又或是你極力證明現在變得認真的那層窗戶紙被捅破了，一下子就尷尬起來。又或是你正處於風口浪尖，你們倆誰都不想打破現狀，所以你們都假裝正常。

1. You’ve met his friends.

1. 你見過了他的朋友。

Specifically, he made a point to *bring you along* to meet his friends. This is very different from him messaging you at 1 AM to swing by a party and pick him up, so you meet his friends fleetingly. But if he actually makes plans with you to go out with his friends, and it all feels like a big deal, he’s at least a little into you.

具體來說，他特別重視帶你見他的哥們兒。這與他凌晨一點給你發短信，讓你去派對接他是不一樣的，因爲那種情況下你只是急匆匆的和他們打了個照面。但如果他真的計劃約你去見他的朋友，而且還特別正式的話，那他至少是有點喜歡你的。

2. He’s bringing you around to “couple’s events.”

2. 他會帶你出席“情侶活動。”

Meeting his friends is one thing. But if you’re unsure of how he views you, and you go out to a dinner that’s all couples… you’ve pretty much got your answer. No guy who wants to keep things casual is going to take you out with a bunch of other couples.

見他的哥兒們是一回事。但如果你不確定他對你的想法，而且你們出席的晚宴又都是情侶……那你心裏應該已經有答案了。如果只想玩玩兒，男生們是不會帶你出席情侶活動的。

3. You slept over and didn’t have sex.

3. 你們睡過了，但沒有發生關係。

When you can spend the night with a new-ish hook up and not feel obligated to actually hook up, it's a good sign. The more this happens, the more likely it is you can have a “talk” without it being cringy. Any guy who wanted to set boundaries with a casual fling wouldn’t have even let this happen once.

當你和一個剛剛勾搭上的男生共度了一夜，並且沒有那種必須要發生關係的感覺時，這可是一個好跡象。這種事情發生的越多，你們就越有可能真心交流，絲毫不用顧慮。那些劃清界限只想要一夜情的男生，是不會讓這種事情發生的，一次都不會。

4. He makes plans around you.

4. 他會以你爲中心制定計劃。

You’re probably not at the point where he’s going to make major career changes with you, but he’s thinking of you beyond the next few weekends, that’s a sign. Whether it means you made casual plans to go see a movie in three weeks, or he’s taking you as his plus one to a wedding in a month, that’s something.

也許他還沒有準備和你一起進行重大的職業生涯變化，但接下來的幾周他的計劃都與你有關，這就是一個跡象。不管你們倆是約好在這三週內看場電影，還是在一個月內他帶你去參加婚禮，這都意味着貓膩。