盤點處理異地戀的10大妙招(下)

k In Once or Twice a Day

8.一天一次或者兩次互相問候

For us, this usually meant a text to say good morning and a text at night to say goodnight and that we loved each other.

對我們而言，通常指的是起牀時的早安和睡前的晚安以及我愛你的一條信息。

It was a cute reminder each day of why we were working through the distance. It wasn't time consuming, but it meant so much.

這是每天愛的提醒，是幫助我們克服距離的解藥。這並不是浪費時間，但是真的意義非凡。

to Visit Each Other

9.想辦法去見他（她）

The one good thing about being in different locations is having somewhere to visit - and it makes visiting extra special.

異地的好處之一就是有一個旅遊地，這也讓旅行變得意義非凡。

Traveling and finding time to travel can be difficult, but if you can sneak in little trips every once in awhile it is worth it.

旅行本身以及擠出時間去很困難，但如果你能時不時來一段這樣說走就走的旅行，所有的困難都是值得的。

While we were doing long distance, we saw each other about 4 or 5 times a year.

我倆在異地戀的時候，每年會見4到5次。

an End Date in Mind

10.心中有一個結束的日期

While I know this may not always be possible, having an end goal will help you get through the time.

我知道這不太現實，但是心中有一個期望會有助於你渡過這段時間。

When we had six months left, I started a countdown because I was so excited. And once that date was on the calendar, it made the rest of the time much easier.

當我們還剩下6個月時間的時候，我開始倒計時，因爲我太興奮了。而且一旦這個日期標記在日曆上，剩下來的時間都相對容易很多。

If you are in a long distance relationship, I wish you the best of luck.

如果你正處於異地戀中，祝你好運。

I know first hand how awful it can be — but I would do it over again if I had to.

異地戀的可怕我是感同身受的--但如果讓我再次選擇我還是會做出同樣的決定。