18種免費方式 母親節可以這樣過

It's not that Mom doesn't deserve an extravagantly expensive celebration of her day. It's just that over-the-top gifts and parties may not be feasible on a budget.
她真正想要的是能夠有一段停止做通常的雜務而且能夠和家人一起度過的美好的時間。

And speaking as a mom, I can say that what matters most to me on Mother's Day isn't the amount of money spent (in fact, I get more of a kick out of saving money, usually). What makes Mother's Day special to me is two things: getting a free pass out of normal mom work like laundry, cleaning, cooking and the like, and getting to spend time with my family. Peruse the list below for plenty of ideas that won't cost you but will still make your mom feel special. (See also: "Mother's Day gifts that show you really care.")
就一個母親而言，我可以說母親節上在我看來更多的麻煩並不是大量的花費(事實上，通常我更多的並沒有省錢)。對於我來說母親節的特殊在於兩件事情：母親們可以從普通媽媽的工作中解脫出來像洗衣服，打掃，做飯等，還有和家人一起度過一段時間。閱讀下面列表中的不花錢但是仍你能是母親感到特殊的大量的觀點。(也能使你明白：“母親節的禮物展示給你真正的關心。”)

Give Mom the day off.
給媽媽一天的假期。

This should be the absolute minimum you do to celebrate Mother's Day, anyway: Give her a day off from all the mundane stuff she does, without complaining, day after day. Pitch in, get the whole family involved, and do the work for her.
這絕對應該是你爲慶祝母親節所做的最小的事，無論如何：在她們，日復一日的沒有完成家務的情況下，從所有她正在做的家務中給媽媽一天的休息時間。

Take the kids to the park and give Mom some quiet time.
帶孩子去公園而且給媽媽一些安靜的時間。

Listen, I know a mom loves being with her kids but, especially for moms of young kids, having a little peace and quiet time is truly one of the ultimate gifts you can give. Pack up the kids, go to the park for an hour or two, and leave Mom at home to nap, watch a movie in peace, read a book, or do her nails -- whatever she wants.
聽，我知道媽媽喜歡跟她的孩子們一起，尤其是媽媽的年幼的孩子們，有一個小的和平與安靜的時間真的是一個你可以給的最大的禮物。帶上孩子們，去公園一或兩個小時，讓媽媽在家裏睡覺，看電影，在和平年代，讀一本書，或做指甲——無論她想要什麼。

Make and deliver breakfast in bed.
爲母親做並且向她提供在牀上吃早飯。

Yes, it's as cliched as giving Dad a tie for Father's Day, but there's a good reason here. Moms are usually the ones who hop (or crawl) out of bed and get everybody going in the morning. She deserves a break. Make a nice breakfast, deliver it to her in bed, and let her enjoy a morning off. (Post continues below.)
是的，它就像父親節送給爸爸一條領帶似的陳詞濫調，但是在這裏它是一個好的原因。媽媽們通常是這樣一個人：她每天早上第一個從牀上跳下來或爬下來，給家裏的每個人做好飯。她值得我們爲她做這樣一頓早飯。做一頓美味的早餐，送給仍在牀上的母親，然後讓她享受一頓早飯的時間來休息。(這以後下面繼續。)

Take the family out for a picnic at the park.
帶全家人去公園野炊。

Get in the kitchen and make some sandwiches, pasta salad, or some other portable meal. Gather up all the picnic supplies (try not to ask Mom what you should take). Then whisk everybody away to a local park for a picnic and some play time outdoors. Take a walk, sit around, talk to people, play volleyball, or go at night and watch the stars. Mom's choice.
去廚房然後做一些三明治 通心粉沙拉，或一些其他的便攜式餐。收集所有的野餐用品(嘗試這不問媽媽你說應該帶的東西)。然後帶着大家到當地的公園野餐而且給大家一些戶外遊玩時間。散步，大家坐在一起，和人們聊天，打排球或在晚上看星星。這是媽媽的選擇。

Take a hike.
徒步旅行。

Picnic t out some new scenery in the area, gather up the gear, and take the family on a leisurely (or energetic) hike. This is one of my favorite family activities. I love being outside, and I love especially being outside with my family.
野餐可選。勘測一些在當地的景觀，做一些安排，而且帶家人有一個悠閒地徒步旅行。這是我最喜愛的家庭活動之一。我喜愛在戶外活動，而且我尤其喜愛和家人一起在戶外活動。

Scout your area for free concerts or events.
關注你所在的地區的一些免費的音樂會或發生的大事件。

Several parks in my area have free concerts over the spring and summer. There are also different festivals, farmers markets, plays, walks, and more. Search for free local events and music in your area, and take the whole family.
在我們這個地區的幾個公園裏在春天和夏天有免費的音樂會。這裏經常也會有不同的節日，農貿市場，戲劇，散步，和更多其他的活動。在你所在的地區關注一些免費的當地發生的時間和音樂，然後帶家人去看。

Have a surprise party.
有一個驚喜派對。

Not every mom will want a surprise party on Mother's Day, so be sensitive to what the mom in your life will enjoy. I happen to love parties and especially love surprise parties, so the idea of having a surprise party on Mother's Day -- one at which the dads and kids are responsible for all the planning, prepping and cleanup -- sounds insanely fun. You have to be serious about pulling this off right, though. No fair planning it and then making Mom handle the cleanup. Do it all.
並不是每一個母親都想在母親節有一個驚喜派對，因此對媽媽在生活中所喜歡的東西保持一個靈敏的反映。我碰巧喜歡派對尤其是驚喜派對，因此對這個主意在母親節上有一個驚喜派 有爸爸和孩子負責規劃，準備和整理-聽起來出切的有趣。儘管，你對拉動這一關權利必須保持嚴謹。不能公平的規劃它然後讓媽媽來整理。你應該做到這一切。

Tackle a project together.
一起做一個項目。

My mother-in-law has a longstanding request for Mother's Day. She wants her "boys" to come over and help out with whatever current project is at hand. We usually plan a casual lunch together sometime on Mother's Day weekend, then my father-in-law and the three grown-up boys go finish up the project while we girls either sit inside and corral the kids or go outside and cheer the men on. It's a no-cost, fun and productive celebration.
我婆婆對於母親節有一個長期的要求。他希望他的女婿過來而且幫助她做一切當前在手邊的項目。在母親節的週末我們有事通常打算有一頓隨便的午餐，然後，我的公公和三個成年的男孩去完成這些項目，而我們女生坐在裏面和科拉爾的孩子或外出或對男性歡呼。這是一個無成本的，有趣和富有成效的慶祝活動。

Have a family movie night.
在晚上一家人一起看電影。

Family time is important for most moms, and finding time to do things together gets more and more difficult as kids get older and have their own social circles, jobs and events. So dedicate Mother's Day night to a special family movie night. Mom gets to pick the movies. Dad and kids provide meal and/or movie-appropriate snacks, and everyone gets to settle in for some chill time together.
對於更多的母親來說家庭時間是重要的，隨着孩子們年齡的變大而且有了他們自己的交際圈，工作和事情，找一些時間和家人一起變得越來越困難。因此將母親節的夜晚這樣一個家庭電影的夜晚獻給母親。媽媽挑選的電影。爸爸和孩子提供膳食和/或電影適當的零食，每個人在這個有些寒意的晚上時間聚集在了一起。

Make a memory book.
製作一本記憶我們一起的書。

For the creatively minded, or for scrapbooking moms in general, having the whole family sit down for a couple of hours to put together a family memory book could be the perfect no-cost gift. Gather supplies you already have: an empty photo album, pretty papers, stickers, photos and the like. Put an hour or two into it, and have (or help) each family member create a page individually and then put them in the book, or work on each page as a team.
在通常情況下對於創造性的頭腦，或頭腦像剪貼簿的媽媽來說，全家人坐在一起待幾個小時來組建一部來記憶一家人一起度過的書，這是一個不錯的禮物。收集提供一些你已經擁有的：一本空的電話簿，漂亮的報紙，貼紙，照片等。將以家人呆在一起的一到兩個小時的記憶放到裏面，然後幫助家裏的每一個成員創建個人的一頁然後將它們放到書裏，或者將他和自己作爲一個團隊時刻在一起。

Create a treasure hunt for Mom.
爲媽媽創建一個寶藏。

Kids aren't the only ones who like treasure hunts. Put some time into thinking up fun clues, then hide little treats or coupons for stuff Mom will like (such as "a night out" or "you get to pick the movie, and no one complains") and let her discover them. Follow along with a camera.
孩子們不僅僅是喜歡尋找寶藏的人。給他們一些時間來思考有趣的線索，然後隱藏一些對於媽媽來說將會喜歡的小的禮物或優惠券(像這種你需要選擇的電影《夜》，而且沒有一個人提出反對的意見)，然後讓媽媽們發現他們。用相機將這些時刻定格下來。

Set up a girls' night in for Mom.
爲媽媽建立一個女生節。

If Mom hasn't had a chance to get together with girlfriends lately, why not make Mother's Day evening a special time for that? Invite a few of her best friends over, then get out of the way. Out of the house, actually, would probably be best. Let them talk, relax and enjoy some kid-free and spouse-free time together.
如果最近媽媽們還沒有一個機會和他們的女性朋友聚在一起，爲什麼不讓她們在母親節的夜晚做這些呢?邀請其中她們一些最好的朋友，然後出去做這些事情。事實上，在外面的度過的一些時間，將有可能是最好的。讓她們聊天，放鬆，享受一些和孩子、配偶一起度過的自由時間。

Take a family bike ride.
帶家人一起騎自行車。

This is a great way to both kick off the summer season of great outdoor family adventures and to celebrate Mother's Day, so get the bikes out of the garage and into shape, find a nearby trail, and head out for a family bike ride. It's a good way to work off that fabulous lunch you made for Mom, anyway.
這是一個偉大的方式花費兩個夏季的時間來進行戶外的家庭冒險活動來慶祝母親節 因此把自行車的車庫塑造成型 尋找附近的小徑 然後出去一家人一塊騎自行車。無論如何，這是一個好辦法在這段時間爲母親做一份令人難以置信的午餐。

Visit a free local attraction.
訪問一個免費的當地景點。

We often forget to be like tourists in our own towns. Here in my city, there's an award-winning free zoo, a free art museum, and a free history museum, plus many parks, nature reserves and historical sites. Take the day to visit some you haven't seen before.
在我們自己的城鎮遊玩我們經常忘記自己是一名遊客。在我的城市 有一個獲獎免費的動物園 一個免費的藝術博物館 一個免費的歷史博物館 加上許多公園、自然保護區和歷史遺蹟。你可以休息一天去遊覽一些你以前沒見過的。

Have a family pajama party.
舉辦一個家庭睡衣派對。

Have everybody get comfy, throw on some fun music, and cook up breakfast for dinner while Mom gets to relax. Eat a leisurely meal, talk about family plans, and play a few games. Then tuck the kids into bed so Mom and Dad can continue the pajama party in their own room.
使每個人都得到舒適，放上一些有趣的音樂和製作早餐來使媽媽得到放鬆。吃一頓悠閒的午餐 談論家庭計劃 玩一些遊戲。然後讓孩子睡覺 媽媽和爸爸可以在他們自己的房間繼續睡衣派對。

Create a new tradition.
創建一個新的傳統。
Traditions help us create memories and give us touchstones as a family, common points of connection we can come back to even as we grow up, move away, pursue different dreams. Use Mother's Day to come up with a new family tradition, then make it something you repeat at significant times. It could be as simple as saying a family prayer or taking a family photo.

傳統幫助我們創建記憶而且能夠給我們作爲一個家庭的試金石 常見的連接點是這樣我們可以回到過去甚至當我們長大了 離開 追求不同的夢想時候。使用母親節想出一個新的家庭傳統 然後讓它重複做一些在重要的時期做的事情。它像做一個家庭祈禱或採取一個家庭的照片這樣簡單。

Volunteer together.
志願者在一起。
Does Mom have a special cause she's passionate about? Volunteer your time as a family and find a way to give back together. Spending a few hours together while helping others will be a gift to Mom, and will benefit you as a family as you build closer relationships and learn to appreciate your blessings.

媽媽有一個特殊的引起她的激情的事情嗎?爲了家庭獻出你的時間然後尋找一種是以家人重新在一起。花幾個小時在一起來幫助別人將會是送給媽媽的一個禮物 而且將有利於你像一個家庭一樣你建立更緊密的關係 學會欣賞你的祝福。

Plan a group outing.
計劃一個集團郊遊。

If Mom is a social creature, then expand the family outing into a group outing. One of the things Mom is often responsible for is planning the social events, so take over that role and let her just enjoy the interaction. You can organize a picnic in the park, a group hike or bike ride, or meet up with friends for one of those free local events. Then cough up the money for some ice cream afterward.
如果媽媽是社會工作者 然後可以擴展到一個組織家庭外出郊遊。媽媽的事情之一是經常負責計劃的社會事件 所以接管這個角色 讓她只是享受交互。你可以組織在公園野餐 一羣徒步旅行 或者騎自行車 或者和朋友會面爲其中的一個免費本地事件。然後那一些錢享受一些冰淇淋。