6種形式的父母關注可以影響孩子未來的成功

The saying goes: 'It doesn't matter where you came from. All that matters is where you're going.'

常言道：”你出生卑微並不重要，重要的是你是否志存高遠“。

But new research suggests that this might not be the case.

但是新的研究表明，可能並非如此

A study now suggests that children of supportive parents are richer and happier in later life.

現在一項新的研究表明，有父母支持的孩子在往後的生活中更加幸福和富有。

Researchers from Kobe University in Japan found that mothers and fathers who help their children in their early years ensure they have higher salaries when they grow up.

日本神戶大學的研究員們發現，如果父母在孩子幼年時幫助他們，那麼他們長大後工資水平會更高。

They are also more likely to get high grades at school and have less chance of dying early.

他們（孩子）也更有可能在學校獲得高分，並且他們的早逝機率也變得更小了。（早逝，受教育不好會早逝？？？？？什麼理論）

The study involved an online survey of 5000 men and women who were asked about their relationship with their parents.

該項研究涉及了5000名男性和女性，在線調查了他們和父母的關係。

Participants were asked to agree or disagree with statements like: ‘My parents trusted me’ and ‘I felt like my family had no interest in me’.

諸如“我父母信任我”及“我感覺父母對我沒興趣”這樣的陳述只能用同意或不同意來回答。

The researchers used this data to split parents into six groups: supportive strict indulgent easygoing harsh and average.

研究者根據數據把父母分成六個組：支持型，嚴厲型，放縱型，隨和型，苛刻型和正常型。

In all three of these categories what was missing was the positive mentality that only children of supportive parents had.

以上三種類型的孩子所缺失的是支持型父母的孩子所具有的積極心態。

They also earned less overall than children whose parents supported them.

這些類型的孩子以後的收入也比支持型父母的孩子來得少。

Parents in the average category were a control to compare to the rest.

這裏將正常型父母作爲其他類型的參照標準。