如果你做了這些事情,那麼你們的戀情可能會被你慢慢毀掉
Relationships don't always fail on the account of someone outside of your relationship. As much as most people would like to blame their failed relationships on their weak-willed partner, that is not always the case. You could possibly be a cause for your relationship problems.
有時候，你們的感情並不是因爲第三者才破裂的。雖然很多人都喜歡將自己破裂的戀情歸咎於他們意志薄弱的另一半，但情況並非總是如此。你也可能是你們戀情出現問題的原因。1. You don't trust your partner.
1. 你不信任你的另一半。I say it all the time, "without trust there's nothing." I don't think there is anything else I believe more when it comes to relationships. If you're always questioning your partner about where they're going and who they're with, it could be ruining your relationship.
我總是說，"信任是一切的基礎。"在感情這件事上，我覺得最重要的就是信任。如果你總是質疑另一半，追問他們去哪兒、和誰呆在一起，那這可能會破壞你們的感情。
2. You're overbearing.
2. 你太霸道了。They're your partner-not your child. There is a way to be supportive and caring towards your partner without being their mama. It's not just women, either. Men have a tendency to be overprotective of their partner as well. Both of you need your personal space!
他們是你的另一半--不是你的孩子。你應該支持、關心他們，但不是以媽媽的方式。這話不止是說給女性朋友聽的。男人也傾向於過度保護他們的另一半。你們都需要一點私人空間！
3. You compare your partner to your ex.
3. 你將現任與前任作比較。This is completely unfair and extremely damaging to any relationship. Your ex is your ex for a reason. Don't insult your partner by constantly comparing them to someone you are no longer with. If you want them to be your ex, you're not ready for a new relationship.
這完全不公，而且也十分有損你的戀情。前任爲什麼是前任？你心裏難道沒點數嗎？不要總是把現任和前任做對比，這是一種侮辱。如果你想讓現任成爲前任，那你根本不適合這段新感情。4. You compare your relationship to other people's relationships.
4. 你將自己的感情與他人的感情作對比。Stay off Instagram. Nothing irks me more than hearing someone judging their relationship based on a social media post of someone else. Again, this is unfair and damaging to any relationship because most of the things you see on social media aren't what they appear to be anyway. False hope to say the least!
遠離Instagram。沒有什麼比根據別人的社交媒體發文/圖而評判自己的戀情好不好更讓我感到厭惡的事情了。我再說一次，這是不公平的，也有損你們的感情，因爲社交媒體上的大部分事情都沒有看上去的那般美好。至少可以說，都是虛假的希望。5. You struggle with personal insecurities.
5. 你的內心在與不安全感作鬥爭。When you're insecure, your judgment is clouded and you are unable to fully give of yourself because you're constantly searching for approval and/or proof of wrongdoing. Nevertheless, there are ways to work through your insecurities. Also, if you have a supportive partner, they will reassure you. Accept what they're saying to you. Don't reject their reassurance.
當你覺得沒有安全感的時候，你的判斷是混亂的，你沒有辦法完全付出自我，因爲你總是爲不正當行爲尋找認可和/或證明。此外，如果你的另一半十分支持你，他們打消你的疑慮。接受他們對你說的話，不要拒絕他們的保證。6. You jump to conclusions.
6. 你會草率的下結論。Naturally, because you don't express your emotions properly, you find yourself jumping to conclusions and assuming things.
當然，因爲你沒有正確表達自己的情緒，所以你就會草率下結論、假設一些事情。
