尋覓真愛:四種男人沾不得大綱
You’ll meet many guys on your path to finding the one who's right for you, but you should avoid a few types at All cost. They might start out as perfectly decent men while they’re trying to get your attention, but once they show their true colors, you may want to head for the hills. Here are a few of the worst offenders.
在生活中你要遇人無數才能找到你的真命天子，但你應該千方百計避免幾種類型。在他們試圖得到你的注意時他們可能表現成非常體面的男人，但一旦他們露出真面目，你可能想快點跑掉。這裏有一些最糟糕的冒犯者。THE MOOCH
This is the guy who never seems to go anywhere with his wallet after he takes you out once or twice. Whether you're taking in a movie, going out for dinner or just grabbing a slice of pizza, he will always plead poor and ask you to pay.
Paying for some things is OK, but if you're with a guy who never has any money (or just has an aversion to spending his own), get out while you can -- or at least before you go broke.
乞討者這就是那個在他帶你出去一兩次之後似乎永遠不會與他的錢包去任何地方的人。不管你是去看一場電影，出去吃頓飯或者只是抓起一片披薩，他總是會哭窮並要你付錢。
給一些東西付錢還好，但如果你跟一個從來沒有什麼錢的傢伙在一起(或者只是排斥花自己錢)，在你有能力時——或者至少在你破產前外出約會。
THE LAZY SLOB
This guy may charm you at first with his ambitions and list of projects that he plans, but that will get old fast once you notice that all he ever seems to do is play video games and order takeout. If he never has anything new to report in terms of job hunting or physical activity of any kind, and he always has stains on his clothing, move on or risk becoming his mother.
The lazy slob has no motivation or intention of ever getting a real job.
懶惰的笨蛋
這傢伙可能一開始用他的雄心壯志以及他計劃的一堆項目列表來迷惑你，但一旦你注意到他似乎所做的事就是玩視頻遊戲和叫外賣時，年齡增長很快。如果在找工作或任何形式的體育活動方面他沒有任何新消息，而他的衣服上總是有污漬，離開他或者冒着風險成爲他的母親。
懶惰的笨蛋沒有獲得一份真正工作的動機或打算。
THE OVERACHIEVER
The complete opposite to the lazy slob is the type A overachiever. While this guy looks great on paper (good job, six-figure income, sweet condo), he will never be around to hang out with you. When he is around, he will talk only about work. He'll sweep you off your feet with expensive dinners and lavish gifts, but as soon as things get serious, he'll go back to focusing solely on his career.
Do you really want a guy who pays more attention to his stocks than to you? We didn't think so.
一流的男人與懶惰的笨蛋完全相反的是一流的成功者。雖然這傢伙表面上看起來很棒（好工作，六位數的薪水，舒適的公寓），但是他永遠不會來跟你約會。當他在旁邊時他將只談工作。他會用昂貴的晚餐和奢華的禮物來讓你拜倒，但一旦事情變得嚴肅，他會回去完全專注到他的事業中。
你真的想要一個重視他的股票比重視你還多的男人嗎？我們不這麼認爲。
THE BIG KID
Some guys never seem to grow up. As charming as they seem at first, dating someone who is immature can be frustrating. All he wants to do is have fun, which is great (he's adventurous and has great date ideas), but when you settle down and move in together, he'll never want to talk about "boring" things like finances, rent and chores.
If you're looking for long-term love, the big kid is not your go-to guy.
大男孩有些人似乎永遠不會長大。起初他們看起來很迷人，約會不成熟的人會令人沮喪。所有他想做的事就是玩得開心，這很棒(他有冒險精神和很棒的約會點子)，但是當你安定下來，搬到一起住，他絕對不想談論諸如財政、租金和家務之類的“無聊”事。
如果你正在尋找一段長久的戀愛，大男孩不是你要找的男人。
