第67期:父母的十一種習慣會影響孩子的一生

今天我們學學父母對孩子的影響。

your child intentionally disturbs you, it is because you are not physically affectionate enough.
如果你的孩子總是故意打擾你，其實是因爲你和他缺乏肢體接觸，缺乏親密感。
your child is lying, it means you overreacted to the mistakes in past.
如果你的孩子撒謊，其實這說明你曾經對他犯過的錯誤反應過度。
your child had poor self-esteem, it is because you advise them more than you encourage them.
如果你的孩子缺乏自信心，其實是因爲你往往傾向於告訴他們怎麼做，而非鼓勵他們自己做。
your child does not stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public.
如果你的孩子不敢捍衛自己的權利，其實是因爲你在他們小時候總是在公開場合訓斥他們。
you buy everything for your children still they take things that do not belong to them, it is because you don't let them choose.
如果你什麼東西都給孩子買，但他們依舊去拿那些不屬於他們的東西，這其實是因爲你不讓他們自己選擇想要的東西。
your child is a coward, it is because you help them too quickly. Don't remove every obstacle from their path.
如果你的孩子很懦弱，那其實是因爲你總是在他們遇到困難時就立刻幫忙。不要把孩子成長道路上的每個障礙都掃清。
your child is jealous, the reason might be you compared them with others consistently.
如果你的孩子嫉妒心很重，那可能是因爲你總是拿別的孩子和他們比較。
your child gets angry quickly, the reason might be you have not praised them enough. They only get attention misbehaving.
如果你的孩子很容易生氣，那其實是因爲你給他們的讚揚不夠，他們只能靠做些失禮的事來吸引你的注意力。
your child doesn't respect others' feelings, the reason might be you always order them-not giving importance to their feelings.
如果你的孩子不會尊重別人的感受，那是因爲你總是命令他們，是因爲你不尊重他們的感受。
your child is secretive, the reason is you blow things very big.
如果你的孩子總是神神祕祕的，什麼都不告訴你，那是因爲你總是愛打擊他們。
the child behaves rudely, it is learnt from parents or others living with them.
如果你的孩子總是行爲粗魯沒禮貌，那其實是從家長或者身邊的人那裏學來的。

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