工作和家庭誰更重要career and family which is more important
Days ago when I was doing my listening practice, I found my idea was quite different from the author’s. He insisted that family should be the first while I hold the opposite idea. Let me explain my opinion step by step.
前幾天當我在做聽力練習的時候，我發現我的想法跟作者的是非常不同的。他堅持認爲，家庭應該是第一個，我持相反的觀點。讓我一步一步的解釋我的觀點。
Drawing a conclusion to which one should be the first, career or family, we should depend on the following two aspects: Which one will do more to your life-long dreams and value; And which one promotes the development of society. It’s normal that there always be a conflict between career and family. However we should have an objective comment. That is which one gives more contribution. I wonder how can a family be permanent without the guarantee of career.
得出事業和家庭哪個更重要的結論，我們應該取決於以下兩個方面：哪個對你一生的夢想和價值影響更大；哪個更能促進社會的發展。在工作和家庭之間有衝突是很正常的。但是我們應該有一個客觀的評論。那是哪一個付出的貢獻更多。我想知道如果沒有事業保障，一個家庭如何能永久的存在。
Talking about achieving our value, we ought to combine it with our needs. What we need includes three sides: The need of existance, the need of enjoying and the need of development. At this time, we must have a clear mind that career or family which one has more ability to satisfy these, which one is related to these from the beginning to the end. There is no doubt that the answer is career. Referring to the value of society, we automatically think of work and creation. I do agree that family have something to do with these sometimes, but the productivity it brings to us is far less than what the career gives. What is the resource of the develpoping society? Of course, productivity. And through which the improvement of productivity can be shown. The answer is career as well.
淺談實現我們的價值，我們應該把它與我們的需要結合起來。我們的需要包括三個方面：生存的需要，享受和發展的需要。在這個時候，我們必須有一個清醒的頭腦去判斷工作或者家庭哪個更能由始至終的滿足這些。毫無疑問，答案是工作。說到社會價值，我們很自然的會想到工作和創新。我同意家庭對於這些是有幫助的，但它給我們帶來的生產能力遠遠比不上工作給我們帶來的。
發展中社會的資源是什麼？當然，生產力。通過提高生產率可以證明。答案也是工作。
When asked what is the final destination for our career, you may said because you want to support a big family. I think maybe this answer belongs to one of our destination, but not the final one. We pay more attention to our career mainly because we desire to do something to meet the need of our society.
當被問及我們最終的事業目的是什麼，你可以說是因爲你要養活一個大家庭。我想也許這個回答是屬於我們的一個目標，但不是最後一個。我們更關注我們的職業生涯主要是因爲我們希望做一些事情來滿足社會的需要。
If a country wants to be more powerful, it needs creative thought and continuous work, which obviously comes from career. As our country becoming stronger, we become stronger, too. In the contrary, if we never put career first, how can a family exist without the support of the society.
如果一個國家要更強大，它需要創造性思維和不斷的工作，這顯然是來自職業生涯。隨着我們的社會變得越來越強大，我們自己也變得強大。相反的，如果我們不把事業放在第一，沒有社會的支持一個家庭如何能存活。
A person who really has a deep understanding of his value, he/she should fight for his career first!
一個對自己的價值有深刻理解的人會首先爲事業而鬥爭。
Actually, the spirit of pursuing higher career is also the spirit we indicate in present day. No matter which period of age we are at, we should keep our passion for reaching the higher level. Only in this way can we really get self value.
事實上，追求更高的事業精神也是我們今天的精神。無論我們哪個年齡階段，我們應該保持追求更高層次的熱情。只有這樣我們才能得到真正的實現自我價值。
Compared the truth and value, yourself and the society, with a overall mind. You will come to a conclusion that career is rather significant!
用整體思維比較真理和價值，自己和社會。你會得出一個結論：工作是相當重要的！
Above is my statement for my opinion. Different people have different viewpoint. Some people, especially ladies, always think it’s their duty to do the housework and they are fated to be the housewives. Never will I agree. Doing more housework is OK for ladies but ladis should have independence. As a lady in 21th. Century, we ought to spare no effort to gain our position in the society. Therefore, I won’t get married until I have an achievement in my career!!
以上是我對我的觀點的陳述。不同的人有不同的觀點。有些人，尤其是女人，如果總認爲做家務是她們的責任，他們註定要成爲家庭主婦。我決不同意。做較多的家務對女士們來說是可以的，但是她們必須要獨立。作爲21世紀的女性，我們應該不遺餘力地增加我們在社會中的地位。因此，直到我在我的職業生涯中有所成就我纔會結婚！！
