研究發現:七成女性拒絕姐弟戀兩性雙語閱讀

As Hollywood's best-known "cougar", Demi Moore has become the envy of while British women may wish for the 47-year-old's youthful, toned figure, it seems they do not hanker after her toyboy husband, 31-year-old Ashton Kutcher.

作爲好萊塢最著名的“吃嫩草”熟女，黛米·摩爾成爲萬千女性羨慕的對象。儘管英國女性也許渴望擁有像這個47歲的女星那樣年輕、健美的身材，但她們似乎對她的小老公——31歲的阿什頓·庫徹並不感興趣。

New research has found that 71 percent of women over the age of 35 said they would not date a man who was more than three years younger than -thirds of the women told a poll they believed shared values and interests were more important than looks.

一項最新調查發現，年齡在35歲以上的女性中有71%的人表示她們不會與比她們小三歲以上的男性約會。三分之二的女性認爲在擇偶方面，共同的價值觀和興趣愛好比相貌更重要。

The survey's findings go against the recent publicity surrounding so-called cougars, middle-aged women who date considerably younger Moore, Madonna and British artist Sam Taylor-Wood are all in relationships with younger men, and the trend has even sparked a hit television series, Cougar Town.

這一調查結果與近來流行的“熟女”一說似乎並不相符。“熟女”指的是和與比自己年輕很多的男性約會的中年女性。黛米·摩爾、麥當娜和英國藝術家薩姆·泰勒-伍德都有過“姐弟戀”，這一潮流甚至還催生了一部熱門電視連續劇——《熟女鎮》。

But the research, by dating website , found that three-quarters of British women wanted relationships with men their own hologist Dr Cecilia d'Felice said: 'For British women, the key to a successful relationship is finding someone on the same wavelength, a person whom they genuinely resonate with.

然而，這項由約會網站開展的調查發現，四分之三的英國女性希望與和自己年齡相仿的男性發展戀情。心理學家塞西莉亞·德·費莉絲博士說：“對於英國女性而言，一段成功戀情的關鍵在於找到志趣相投的人，也就是能夠與她們真正產生共鳴的人。

"While some couples successfully transcend conventional age barriers, many people find it more satisfying to relate to someone their own age because their experiences and outlook on life are more likely to be similar." "Clearing up after a twenty-something who doesn't know how to use the washing machine, however gorgeous, is not most women's idea of fun."

“儘管有些伴侶超越了傳統的年齡障礙，但很多人認爲找一個與自己年齡相仿的伴侶會更美滿，因爲這樣兩個人在人生經歷和人生觀上都有更多的共同點。“不管人長得有多帥，整天要跟在一個連洗衣機都不會用的毛頭小夥後面收拾殘局，想必不是多數女性希望的生活樂趣。”