二十出頭(或者更早)結婚的15個好處
I asked women who married between the ages of 18 and 23 to share what they believe to be the benefits of getting married at a young age and gathered their responses below:
有些女孩在18到23歲的時候就結了婚，我請這些人分享了她們所認爲的結婚早的好處，她們的回答如下：1. While you're young you can enjoy the complete life adventure with your closest friend.
1. 當你還年輕的時候，能夠與另一半一起享受一場完完全全的生活大冒險。2. You and your spouse are not set in your ways quite yet. You can mold and shape each other as time goes on.
2. 你和另一半的生活方式還沒有完全成型。隨着時間的推移，你們可以影響、塑造彼此的習慣。
3. You learn to compromise as you approach some of life's biggest decisions hand in hand.
3. 一起面對生活中最重要的決定時，你們會學會妥協。4. Support. When you're starting your career or in school or moving every couple years, it's so nice to have a cheerleader all the time.
4. 支持。每隔幾年，當你打算重新開始一份工作、或是繼續讀書、又或是搬家時，總有人支持你的感覺真好。5. You're unavoidably poor when you're young, which helps you learn and gain financial stability together. When you start out with nothing, you learn to be grateful for anything.
5. 年輕的時候，貧窮是無法避免的，這會幫助你們一起學習如何保持財務穩定。當你最開始一無所有時，你會學會對所有東西感恩。6. If you're looking to start a family, your body is better equipped to have babies at a younger age.
6. 如果你打算組建家庭，年輕的時候，身體更適合懷孕。7. You're used to making someone else your first priority.
7. 你會習慣先考慮他人。8. You celebrate many events and milestones together that people who marry later in life may not get the opportunity to.
8. 你會與另一半一起慶祝很多的事件和重要時刻，如果晚點結婚，可能你就不會有這種機會了。9. You grow up together.
9. 你們一起成長。10. You let go of selfish habits before you develop them. It's not always about where you want to go or what you want to see, and you learn to involve another person.
10. 在你還未養成自私習慣前，你就不再自私了。世界並不總是圍繞你想去哪兒或者你想看什麼，你開始學會要考慮他人。11. You learn most everything together, both literally and metaphorically, and can help enhance each other's education.
11. 很多事情你們都是一起學會的，既是比喻意義又是字面上的意思，這能有助於增加彼此的涵養。12. You'll both have more energy, whether that's to work together, play together, or to chase after your kids together.
12. 你們都會更有精神，不管是一起工作、一起玩鬧還是一起追逐孩子們。
13. Making plans for the future (for example, where you are going to live in the next few years, how many children you want, what kind of house you will buy, etc.) is easier because you've made the ultimate commitment and so you work as a unit.
13. 爲未來做計劃會更簡單（比如，過幾年你們想住哪兒，你們想要幾個孩子，以及你們打算買什麼樣的房子等等），因爲你們已經對彼此做出了終極承諾，所以你們會以一個團隊的精神工作。14. Your ambition and dreams don't stop just because you're married. You both get creative on how to achieve your personal and mutual goals.
14. 你的抱負和夢想不會只是因爲結婚而停止。你們倆在如何實現個人目標和共同目標方面都更有創造性想法。15. Marriage at a young age makes you both more accountable, to each other and to your individual goals.
15. 年紀小一點結婚會讓你們更有責任感，不僅對彼此更負責，而且對自己的目標也是如此。
