有損戀愛關係的壞習慣

Talking Bad About Friends/Family

說朋友或家人的壞話

Whether it's parents, a brother or sister, or a close friend, family and friends serve as a relationship-board-of-directors for Most women and, unless extreme, you've been together for a tremendously long time you should steer clear of saying negative things about any of them, Dia Hicks, relationship expert and founder and CEO of SwaggerScan says. No matter how many times he or she delivers negative depictions of them, still they are family and were in their life long before you, he adds.

不管是父母、兄弟、姐妹還是知己，對於大多數女性而言，家人和朋友就是戀情的諮詢員，除非特殊情況下，比如你們已經談了很長時間，否則你就不能說女友家人和朋友的壞話，SwaggerScan的創建人兼首席執行官蒂亞•希克斯說道，同時他也是情感專家。不管你說了多少次有關她家人或朋友的壞話，他們仍然是一家人，而且比你更爲重要，他補充說。

Hygiene

衛生

Hygiene is one of those important things within a relationship, it tends to go unappreciated until its missing, Hicks says. This is because you’re supposed to keep yourself cleaned up, washed up, combed up and smelling nice most of the time at least. “Lack of hygiene can also make for frigidity during intimate moments. This may appear as her being frigid to you but to her it’s your fault for being a stinky-poo,” he adds.

戀情中最重要的事情之一就是衛生，直到意識到乾淨的重要性，人們纔會對其加以重視，希克斯說道。這是因爲至少你要看上去幹乾淨淨的，大多數的時候要梳洗乾淨，還要聞起來香噴噴的。“親密時刻不乾淨的話也會導致冷場。對你而言，可能是她冷漠寡淡，但對她而言，一切都是你的錯，誰讓你臭哄哄的呢，”他補充道。

Money

金錢

“While it is never ok to lean on your girlfriend financially, it may also be a bad idea to lavish her with gifts too fast,” Hicks says. “It won't be her fault for indulging, the blame will rest solely on your own money clip because sometimes even the most honest women will find it hard to say 'no' to being showered with expensive gifts.”

“在金錢方面一直依賴自己的女朋友是不行的，而且總是用貴重的禮物逗她開心也不是一個好主意，”希克斯說道。“恃寵而驕並不是她的錯，要怪只能怪你的錢包太鼓了，因爲有時候，即使是最誠實的女人也很難在昂貴的禮物面前說‘不’。”

Broken Promises

未能兌現的承諾

When you make a promise to your significant other, they expect you to follow through. “You should make a rule to never make too many promises but the times and moments when you do, make sure you deliver in spades,” Hicks says. “In fact, there's already a saying for this - 'under promise and over deliver'! There ya go!”

當你對人生中重要的一半做出承諾時，她們是希望你能兌現的。“你應該給自己定條規則，不要許下太多的承諾，但輪到自己許下承諾的時刻，一定要確保自己圓滿兌現，”希克斯說道。“事實上，有一句老話已經充分表達——‘言必信，行必果’！加油！”

Jealousy

嫉妒

“Guys, women love a little jealousy so it's alright if you show just a little,” Hicks says. “Some guys are so intent on showing savvy when they're out with their drop dead gorgeous girlfriend that they miss the opportunity to show her she's cherished.”

“男生們，當你們表現出一點點的嫉妒時，女生們是很喜歡的，”希克斯說道。“有些男孩子和女神級女友出去時，總表現得淡定自若，因此就錯失了表現嫉妒的機會。”