讓世界更和諧的吵架方法,25句口語來搞定
人生充滿了爭吵，由於我們的修養不夠，爭吵很容易發展成衝突。如何讓爭吵獲得有益的結果呢？今天特別爲大家隆重奉獻25種讓世界更和諧的吵架方法。
Please try to understand my point of view.
請理解我的觀點.
Wait, can I take that back?
等一下,我能收回我說的話嗎?
you.don't have to solve this — it helps me just to talk to you.
我不用幫我解決這個問題.和你聊一下就對我有幫助.
This is important to me. Please listen.
這對我很重要.請仔細聽.
I overreacted.
我反應過激了.
I see you're in a tough position.
我知道你的處境艱難.
I can see my part in this.
這個問題,我有錯.
I hadn't thought of it that way before.
我以前沒有這樣想.
I could be wrong.
我可能是錯的.
Let's agree to disagree on that.
讓我們接受我們的不同觀點.
This isn't just your problem; it's our problem.
這不只是你的問題.這是我們的問題.
I'm feeling unappreciated.
我感覺沒有收到重視.
We're getting off the subject.
I know I need to listen more.
我知道,我應該多傾聽.
You've convinced me.
你說服我了.
Let's take a break for a few minutes.
讓我們停一會.
If you can remember to do this, it's extremely effective—especially if you're having a big fight. After a break, it's almost impossible to go back to yelling.
Please keep talking to me.
別不理我.
I realize it's not your fault.
我意識到這不是你的錯.
That came out all wrong.
我表達錯了.
I see how I contributed to the problem.
我明白我引起了這個問題.
What are we really fighting about?
我們到底在爲什麼爭吵?
How can I make things better?
我怎樣才能把事情變得更好呢?
We can solve this if we work together.
如果我們攜手合作,我們就可以解決這個問題.
I'm sorry.
對不起.
I love you.
我愛你.
最後兩句是最簡單、最有力量的!
