如何對 “放棄” 說不！範例

What do you do to Motivate yourself when you are about to give up?
在你瀕臨放棄邊緣時，如何激勵自己再次前行？
獲得145好評的回答@Ariel Banayan:

STEP 1: Understanding that you're not alone & the feeling isn't permanent.
步驟一：明白自己並非特例或者這種情緒不會一直都在。

STEP 2: Start believing in yourself; You have the power to let go of negative beliefs about yourself and the power to create positive beliefs that will empower you rather than hinder you.
步驟二：擁有自信。你有足夠的能力趕走消極想法，並對自己產生一些積極的想法，使自己能夠勇往直前。

STEP 3: Start changing your life in ways that will reflect a change in your attitude towards life.
步驟三：開始改變自己生活方式，反映你在生活態度上的變化。

STEP 4: Surround yourself with people who exhibit qualities that you want to possess.
步驟四：有的人會展現出你所希望擁有的品質，去和這樣的人做朋友。
獲得197好評的回答@Samidha Paroha：

Visualization.
想象。

Whenever I feel like giving up, I visualize my dream materializing in front of me.
當我想要放棄的時候，我都會想像自己夢想成真。

I imagine I am standing right there looking at my dream vacation place, or spinning the chair at my favorite company, or eating my favorite mom-made dish, or driving that one car I've always wanted. I close my eyes and imagine myself doing what I want to do. I make-believe, like a kid.
我會想像自己站在夢想的度假勝地，或者在我最愛的公司裏面上班，或者正在品嚐麻麻做的菜，或者開着我一度想要的車。我閉上眼睛，想像自己此刻正在做着一切我想做的。我像個孩子一樣做白日夢。

This gives me a head start and a much-needed motivation straightaway. But then, you've got to work for your goal too! You cannot just go watch a movie after that!
想這樣想讓我感覺有了全新的開始，給我很大的鼓勵。但是在那之後，你應該重新朝着目標前進，而不是去看場電影。
獲得160好評的回答@Virali Modi：

I make a pros and cons list.
我會列一份利弊清單。

I often feel the need to give up. I often feel that it's not worth doing whatever it is that I'm doing, especially if I'm not getting any results.
我經常想要放棄。我經常認爲我所做的並不值得繼續下去，尤其是在我沒有得到任何實質性成果時。

During that time, I make a pros and cons list, the pros usually outweigh the cons, which instantly motivates me.
在此刻，我就會列出利弊清單，利通常大於弊，這可以激勵我繼續前進。