戀愛祕笈：笑點一樣的人才能在一起？！

study after study affirms that people want a mate with a sense of humor. But it’s less about you being a jokester than about finding a style of humor that makes you both laugh.
不斷有研究證實，人們喜歡有幽默感的伴侶。但這不是說你就要做搞笑分子，要找到能讓你們倆都笑的幽默風格。

People say they want a sense of humor in a mate, but that’s a broad concept.
人們說他們希望伴侶有幽默感，但這是個寬泛的概念。

What is strongly related to relationship satisfaction is the humor that couples create together.
和戀愛關係滿足感相關的是情侶彼此共同營造的幽默。

If you share a sense of what’s funny, it affirms you and affirms your relationship through laughter.
真正起到作用的是你們倆對什麼好笑有共識，這能使你確信，也讓你們的關係在笑聲中鞏固。

Playfulness between romantic partners is a crucial component in bonding and establishing relational security and that laughter, particularly shared laughter, is an important indicator of romantic attraction between potential mates.
戀愛關係裏輕鬆活潑的狀態對建立和穩固戀愛關係起到至關重要的作用，歡笑，尤其是兩人共同的笑點是潛在情侶彼此吸引的重要指示。

It’s good to have humor. It’s better to see it in your partner. And it’s best to share it.
有幽默感自然好，你的伴侶有幽默感則更好，你們有共同的幽默感則好上加好。

It’s not about being a great comedian, but finding what’s funny in the everyday and enjoying it together.
不是說要你成爲偉大的喜劇演員，而是說要找到日常生活中有意思的笑料還能一起樂。

It is most important you do it together.
你們一起樂，纔是重中之重。