爸爸給兒子的信英文
全世界的父親其實是一樣的，都希望自己的孩子能夠成才，那麼來看看外國的父親會對孩子說什麼吧，接下來是本站小編整理的爸爸給兒子的信英文範文，歡迎閱讀。
dear son...
親愛的兒子...
the day that you see me old and i am already not, have patience and try to understand me …
哪天當你看到我日漸老去 身體也漸漸不行 請耐着性子 試着瞭解我...
if i get dirty when eating… if i can not dress… have patience....
如果我吃的髒兮兮 甚至已不會穿衣服 耐心一點兒...
remember the hours i spent teaching it to you.
你記得我曾經花了多少時間 教你這些事嗎?
when i do not want to have a shower, neither shame me nor scold me…
當我不想洗澡 不要羞辱我也不要責罵我...
when you were small, i had to read to you thousand and one times the same story until you get to sleep…
你小時候 我必須一遍又一遍地 讀着同樣的故事 直到你靜靜睡着...
if, when i speak to you, i repeat the same things thousand and one times… do not interrupt me… listen to me...
當我一再重複 說着同樣的事情 請你不要打斷我 聽我說...
remember when i had to chase you with thousand excuses i invented, in order that you wanted to bath…
你記得小時候 我曾經編出多少理由 只爲了哄你洗澡...
when you see my ignorance on new technologies… give me the necessary time and not look at me with your mocking smile…
當你看到我對新科技一無所知 給我一點時間 不要嘲笑我...
i taught you how to do so many things… to eat good, to dress well… to confront life…
我曾經教會了你多少事情啊 如何好好地吃 好好的穿 如何面對你的生命...
when at some moment i lose the memory or the thread of our conversation… let me have the necessary time to remember…
and if i cannot do it, do not become nervous…
as the most important thing is not my conversation but surely to be with you and to have you listening to me…
如果交談中 我忽然失憶 不知道該說什麼了 給我一些時間想想...
如果我還是無能爲力 不要緊張...
對我而言 重要的不是說話 而是能跟你在一起以及你的傾聽...
if ever i do not want to eat, do not force me. i know well when i need to and when not.
當我不想吃東西時 不要勉強我 我清楚知道該什麼時候進食...
when my tired legs do not allow me walk... give me your hand…
the same way i did when you gave your first steps...
當我的腿不聽使喚 扶我一把...
就像我當初扶着你 踏出你人生的第一步...
and when someday i say to you that i do not want to live any more…
that i want to die… do not get angry… some day you will understand…
try to understand that my age is not lived but survived...
當哪天我告訴你 我不想再活下去了...
不要生氣 總有一天 你會了解...
試着瞭解我 已風燭殘年 來日可數...
some day you will discover that, despite my mistakes, i always wanted the best thing for you and that i tried to prepare the way for you...
有一天你會發現 即使我有許多過錯 我總是盡我所能 給你最好的...
you must not feel sad, angry or impotent for seeing me near you...
you must be next to me, try to understand me and to help me as i did it when you started living...
當我靠近你時 不要覺得感傷 生氣 或埋怨...
你要緊挨着我 如同當初我幫着你展開人生一樣的 瞭解我 幫我 ...
help me to walk… help me to end my way with love and patience...
i will pay you by a smile and by the immense love i have had always for you...
扶我一把 用愛和耐心 幫我走完人生...
我將用微笑 和我始終不變的愛 來回報你 ...
i love you son…
我愛你 我的孩子...
your father
你的父親
爸爸給兒子的信英文範文二：給我兒子的一封信
親愛的塞思，
你現在只有3歲，在這個人生階段，你還看不懂這封信，更難明白在這封信裏我將要告訴你的東西。但是，我一直在思考很多關於在有你之前的生活，關於在我的生活中，只要我想起來我所學到的東西，關於作爲一個父親，試圖爲你將要在未來的年月所要面對的麻煩事所做的準備。
你現在無法理解今天的這封信，但總有一天，當你準備好了，我希望你能在我跟你分享的東西里找到一些有智慧和價值的東西。
你還年輕，生活已經不得不損耗你，不得不把失望，悲痛，孤獨和鬥爭和痛苦帶到你行進的路上。然而慶幸的是你尚未被長時間做着吃力不討好的工作和日常生活中的打擊所拖垮。
爲此，要感謝上天，你正處於一個奇妙的人生階段，並且許多美好的人生階段還會來到，但是你想得到它們也要爲此付出代價和承受風險。
我希望能通過分享我學會的經驗中，最好的一些內容來幫助你走好人生之路。對於任何意見，就以半信半疑的態度來接受吧，因爲對我起作用的東西不一定就對你起作用。
生活可能是殘忍的
在你的生活中，你會遇到對你不好的人。他們會取笑你，因爲你的不同，或者沒有很好的理由，他們也會取笑你。他們可能會欺負你或傷害你。
對於這樣的人，除了學會如何應付他們，就沒有什麼你能做的了，學會選擇對你友好，真正關心你，讓你自我感覺良好的朋友。當您找到這樣的朋友，把握他們，珍惜他們，花時間與他們相處，善待他們並且愛他們。
生活中，你會遇到成功代替失望的時候，生活不會總是按你想要的方式進行。這只是你將不得不學會處理的另一件事。爲了不讓這些事情放倒你，你要接受失望並且學會堅持，儘管困難重重，也要堅持去追求你自己的夢想。學會把悲觀變爲樂觀，那麼在生活中，你就會做得更好。
你還將面臨你愛着的人給你帶來的心碎和遺棄你。我希望你不必面對太多這樣的事情，但如果它發生，同樣，你所能做的就是等待傷口癒合，並且繼續你的生活。讓這些痛苦成爲你將事情變得更好的墊腳石，並且你要學會利用它們來使你變得更加強大。
但是，無論如何要對生活開放
是的，在漫長的人生旅途中，你會發現殘酷和痛苦的事情...但不要因爲那些東西，讓你就對新事物關上了門，不要避開生活，不要躲藏起來或者自我隔離，要始終對新事物，新體驗和新朋友開放。
你可能會心碎10次，但可能會在第11次愛情中找到最美妙的女子。如果你讓自己跟愛隔絕，你將會錯過了那個女人，以及你生命中最快樂的時光。
你可能會被你遇到的人取笑，欺負和傷害...然後在經歷遇到幾十個混球后，會找到一個真正的朋友。如果你和新認識的人隔離，不對他們打開心扉，你會避免痛苦...但你也會失去一些不可思議的人，這些人會在你生命中最艱難的時候會陪着你，並且創造出你生命中最好的一些時光。
你會失敗很多次，但如果你允許自己停止嘗試，你將錯過那種獲得成功時的感覺，那種感覺就是一旦你取得成績並達到新的高度時所得到的令人驚異的感覺。失敗是通往成功的一塊墊腳石。
生活並不是一場競爭比賽
在學校裏，在大學裏，在工作中，你將會遇到很多想超越你的人。他們會嘗試去擁有更好的車，更大的房子，更好的衣服，更酷的器具。對他們來說，生活就是一場競爭比賽-他們要做的比他們的同行者更好才能開心。
這裏有一個祕密告訴你：生活不是一場競爭比賽。它是一個旅程。如果在旅程中，你總是試圖讓別人對自己印象深刻，超越別人，你其實是在浪費你的旅程。相反，你應學會享受旅程，使它成爲一個幸福，不斷學習，不斷改進，和愛的旅程。
不必爲擁有更好的汽車，房子或物質東西，甚至是更好的高薪工作煩惱。那些東西都無關緊，沒有它會使你更快樂些。因爲當你獲得這些東西后，你就只想要得更多。相反，學會滿足-然後利用那些時間，就是你想掙錢來買那些東西所浪費的時間，利用那些時間去做你愛做的事情。
找出你的酷愛並頑強地去追求它。不要滿足於能支付你的帳單的工作。生命太短暫，不要浪費它在你所憎恨的工作上。
愛應該是你的規則
如果有一個字應該在你的生活中一起伴隨你，那麼它應該是：愛。這可能聽起來是老生常談，我知道...但相信我，在生活中再也沒有比它更好的規則。
有些人會靠成功的規則生存。他們的生活將是緊張，不愉快和膚淺的。
其他人則靠自私的規則生存-他們的需求高於其他人的需求。他們將寂寞地生活，並且也將是不開心的。
還有一些人是靠正義的規則所生活-他們試圖展示正確的途徑，並告誡任何不靠那條途徑生活的人。他們擔心他人，但是卻以消極的方式來進行，最終只會和他們自己所擁有的正義一起生活，那會是一個可怕的伴侶。
按照愛的規則去過你的生活吧。用你的全身心去愛你的配偶，你的孩子，你的父母，朋友。給他們所需要的東西，並在他們面前只表示你的愛，沒有殘酷，沒有反對，沒有冷漠，沒有失望。對他們開放你的心靈。
不僅愛你的親人，還有你的鄰居... ...你的同事，陌生人...人類範圍中你的兄弟姐妹們。向每個你遇見的人微笑，說善意的話語，做友好的手勢，伸出援助之手。
不僅愛鄰居和陌生人...還要愛你的敵人。那個對你最殘酷的人，那個一直對你不客氣的人...去愛他。因爲他是一個在受折磨的靈魂，也最需要你的愛。
最重要的是，要愛你自己。在別人可能罵你時，學會不要讓你自己對此感到非常艱難，不要認爲自己是醜陋，或者愚蠢，或者不值得愛...相反，要認爲你是一個奇妙的人兒，是值得擁有幸福和愛的人... ，學習去愛那個本來的你。
最後，我要讓你知道我愛你，並將永遠愛你。你開始了一個奇怪的，可怕的，艱鉅的，但最終是不可思議的奇妙旅程，只要可以，我將會在那兒等你。祝福你。
愛你的爸爸
A Letter to My Son
Dear Seth,
You’re only three years old, and at this point in your life you can't read, much less understand what I’m going to try to tell you in this letter. But I've been thinking a lot about the life that you have ahead of you, about my life so far as I reflect on what I've learned, and about my role as a dad in trying to prepare you for the trials that you will face in the coming years.
You won't be able to understand this letter today, but someday, when you're ready, I hope you will find some wisdom and value in what I share with you.
You are young, and life has yet to take its toll on you, to throw disappointments and heartaches and loneliness and struggles and pain into your path. You have not been worn down yet by long hours of thankless work, by the slings and arrows of everyday life.
For this, be thankful. You are at a wonderful stage of life. You have many wonderful stages of life still to come, but they are not without their costs and perils.
I hope to help you along your path by sharing some of the best of what I've learned. As with any advice, take it with a grain of salt. What works for me might not work for you.
Life Can Be Cruel
There will be people in your life who won't be very nice. They'll tease you because you're different, or for no good reason. They might try to bully you or hurt you.
There's not much you can do about these people except to learn to deal with them, and learn to choose friends who are kind to you, who actually care about you, who make you feel good about yourself. When you find friends like this, hold on to them, treasure them, spend time with them, be kind to them, love them.
There will be times when you are met with disappointment instead of success. Life won't always turn out the way you want. This is just another thing you'll have to learn to deal with. But instead of letting these things get you down, push on. Accept disappointment and learn to persevere, to pursue your dreams despite pitfalls. Learn to turn negatives into positives, and you'll do much better in life.
You will also face heartbreak and abandonment by those you love. I hope you don't have to face this too much, but it happens. Again, not much you can do but to heal, and to move on with your life. Let these pains become stepping stones to better things in life, and learn to use them to make you stronger.
But Be Open to life Anyway
Yes, you'll find cruelty and suffering in your journey through life … but don't let that close you to new things. Don't retreat from life, don't hide or wall yourself off. Be open to new things, new experiences, new people.
You might get your heart broken 10 times, but find the most wonderful woman the 11th time. If you shut yourself off from love, you'll miss out on that woman, and the happiest times of your life.
You might get teased and bullied and hurt by people you meet … and then after meeting dozens of jerks, find a true friend. If you close yourself off to new people, and don't open your heart to them, you'll avoid pain … but also lose out on meeting some incredible people, who will be there during the toughest times of your life and create some of the best times of your life.
You will fail many times but if you allow that to stop you from trying, you will miss out on the amazing feeling of success once you reach new heights with your accomplishments. Failure is a stepping stone to success.
Life Isn't a Competition
You will meet many people who will try to outdo you, in school, in college, at work. They'll try to have nicer cars, bigger houses, nicer clothes, cooler gadgets. To them, life is a competition — they have to do better than their peers to be happy.
Here's a secret: Life isn't a competition. It's a journey. If you spend that journey always trying to impress others, to outdo others, you’re wasting your journey. Instead, learn to enjoy the journey. Make it a journey of Happiness, of constant learning, of continual improvement, of love.
Don't worry about having a nicer car or house or anything material, or even a better-paying job. None of that matters a whit, and none of it will make you happier. You'll acquire these things and then only want more. Instead, learn to be satisfied with having enough — and then use the time you would have wasted trying to earn money to buy those things … use that time doing things you love.
Find your passion, and pursue it doggedly. Don't settle for a job that pays the bills. Life is too short to waste on a job you hate.
Love Should Be Your Rule
If there's a single word you should live your life by, it should be this: Love. It might sound corny, I know … but trust me, there's no better rule in life.
Some would live by the rule of success. Their lives will be stressful, unhappy and shallow.
Others would live by the rule of selfishness — putting their needs above those of others. They will live lonely lives, and will also be unhappy.
Still others will live by the rule of righteousness — trying to show the right path, and admonishing anyone who doesn't live by that path. They are concerned with others, but in a negative way, and in the end will only have their own righteousness to live with, and that's a horrible companion.
Live your life by the rule of love. Love your spouse, your children, your parents, your friends, with all of your heart. Give to them what they need, and show them not cruelty nor disapproval nor coldness nor disappointment, but only love. Open your soul to them.
Love not only your loved ones, but your neighbors … your coworkers … strangers … your brothers and sisters in humanity. Offer anyone you meet a smile, a kind word, a kind gesture, a helping hand.
Love not only neighbors and strangers … but your enemy. The person who is cruelest to you, who has been unkind to you … love him. He is a tortured soul, and most in need of your love.
And most of all, love yourself. While others may criticize you, learn not to be so hard on yourself, to think that you’re ugly or dumb or unworthy of love … but to think instead that you are a wonderful human being, worthy of Happiness and love … and learn to love yourself for who you are.
Finally, know that I love you and always will. You are starting out on a weird, scary, daunting, but ultimately incredibly wonderful journey, and I will be there for you when I can. Godspeed.
Love, Your Dad
爸爸給兒子的信英文範文三：And now as you are an adult, everything you do at present and what you want to be in the future will entirely depend on you, on how you strive, work and fight. After all, this is a world wherein everything does not come at the click of your fingers nor by dreaming. You must exert efforts for result to come.
Remember that the world does not revolve around you. You revolve around the world. The world does not fit you; you must fit into it. As you grow older, you will find out that what you get is just exactly the same amount of what you give. And for that reason, you should never stop trying and trying.
There are a few things which you should follow as a matter of principle and as a way of life. Guidelines that would make you and could lead you on a path towards greatness and glory. Among them is the preservation of your integrity. This goes with your name, honour and your family. Another is giving to the best of your ability in everything and anything you do. Never show that you are too lax or unconcerned nor to be remiss in your responsibilities. Always aim high, for the best and to be number one. Show that you know how to repay kindness through your gratitude. Always be true to yourself and to others and avoid plasticity. People should not be taken for granted. Lastly, never fail in your believe and trust in God. He should not only save as your pillar of strength and confidence and answer to your spiritural needs. He too, must equally be remembered in times of happiness and success. There are a lot of people who love you very dearly. Friends, males and females, relatives and admirers. The will come and they will go. Some for short time, others longer.
We who are in the family will probably care for you longest. At least as long as we are alive and have that capacity to love and care. Hopefully you, too can provide the time, attention and care for us.
On my end, the only thing I would aspire for is that I hope I have not failed as a father. I think I could proudly say to your brothers and sisters, to everyone, to God and to you that I tried.
I pray that the best is still to come. Remember, we love you very much.
Again, HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
ALWAYS
今天起你已經長大成人了。你現在要做一件事就要靠自己了，你將來想成爲什麼樣的人也完全取決於你自己的努力了。你的未來取決於你如何去奮鬥，如何對待工作和如何去拼搏--總之，這個世界，天上不會掉餡餅，也不會彈指一揮就可以夢想成真。這是一個你必須爲達目的而竭盡全力的世界。
你要明白：這個世界不會圍着你轉，而你卻要圍着這個世界轉。社會不會適應你，而你卻要去適應這個社會。隨着你逐漸成人，你會發現你得到的恰恰是你所付出的。爲此，你要不停的奮爭。
有幾件事情你要作爲做人的行爲準則而牢記終生。這些準則將照亮你的人生之路。首先要正直。這一品質將永遠伴隨着你的名字，你的名聲和你的家庭。其次是，無論你做什麼事情，你都要全力以赴。永遠不要馬馬虎虎，漫不經心。對工作要保持強烈的責任感。每時每刻總是朝着最高目標，爭取最好，爭取第一。你要顯示出你是個知恩圖報的人。對自己對別人都要真誠。要有原則性。不要將別人的好意都看作理所當然。要堅持自己的信仰，相信上帝。那是你力量和自信的支柱，也是你的精神需求的源泉。無論是幸福之時還是成功之後都不可忘記。
你未來的日子裏會遇到各種各樣的人，男人、女人、親戚和知己朋友。你來他往，有的時間長有的時間短。作爲家人的我們可能陪伴你的時間最長。起碼在我們的有生之年和能力所及期間始終關注着你。同樣，希望你也能對我們付出你的時間和關愛。
最後，我唯一期望的是我希望自己是個合格的父親。我想我可以驕傲地對你的兄弟姐妹們，對所有人，對上帝，對你說：“爲你我盡心盡力了”
我爲更加美好的未來而祈禱。記住：我非常愛你。
再次祝你生日愉快!
你的
父親
