積極樂觀的人不會做的14件事(2)
8. They Don’t Expect Something for Nothing
不指望天上掉餡餅
9. They Don’t Get Bored
不會覺得無聊
Boredom is a place where creativity, inspiration, and productivity die. Positive people are fascinated by everything around them. They explore the world with enthusiasm and curiosity, asking as many questions as they can. On a similar note, fun fact: did you know you have atoms in your body that were created in a star 13 billion years ago? True story (so you don’t get to be bored).
無聊扼殺創造力、激情和效率。積極的人會對周圍的一切感到驚喜。他們帶着激情和好奇去探索世界，問着各類問題。同樣有趣的事實：你知道體內有一些分子是13億年前就已經出現的麼？ 是真的哦！（你永遠都不會覺得無聊了）。
10. They Don’t Let Negative Thoughts Hijack Their Brain
不會讓消極的思想侵佔大腦
Positive people don’t subject themselves to a chorus of self-defeating negative thoughts. When a negative thought passes through their head, they remind themselves: if I wouldn’t say it about another person, I shouldn’t think it about myself.
積極的人才不會讓自己被那些消極的思想打敗呢。當消極的想法出現，他們就會提醒自己，如果我沒有這樣說過別人，我就不應該這麼想自己。
11. They Don’t Make Comparison With Others
不和別人比較
Positive people understand that everyone is different and has his own progress, so they don’t compare themselves to other people. They are confident about what they have and what they do. Instead of focusing on how others are doing, they pay attention on how to improve their own life.
積極的人瞭解每個人都不同，有着自己的成長軌跡，所以從不跟別人對比。他們對自己擁有和從事的一切非常自信。與其花時間關注其他人在幹什麼，他們會更加熱衷於提高自己的生活質量。
12. They Don’t Agonize Over Every Little Mistake
不會爲小錯誤糾結
Positive people don’t look at failure as a terrible thing to avoid at all costs. They know that failure is a possibility when it comes to trying anything new. Seeing failure for what it is (a learning opportunity and nothing more) helps positive people achieve massive success as they learn and grow.
積極的人不會因爲把失敗看成極度恐怖的事情而不惜一切代價去避免。他們知道嘗試任何一件事都會有失敗的可能。把失敗看淡（比如看成一次學習的機會或者根本就沒什麼大不了）能讓積極的人在學習成長的過程中獲得更大的成功。
13. They Don’t Think Life Is Perfect
不會覺得生活是完美的
Positive people forget about perfection, because it’s just not possible. When is the last time you thought, “Wow, this is the perfect day to get in shape,” or “You know what? This is the day I quit my job, move to Santa Fe, and pursue my real passion?” Oh, that’s right: you didn’t, because there isn’t a “perfect time” to do anything. Positive people take action in the here and now, perfection be damned.
積極的人不苛求完美，因爲世上本無完美可言啊。“哇，今天真是適合健身的完美日子啊！” 或者“你知道麼，就是今天，我要辭職搬到聖達菲起，追求我真正的夢想去了！” 上次這麼想是什麼時候來着？好像沒有對吧，因爲做任何事都不會有一個“完美的時機”。積極的人會立即行動，而不是亟待完美時機的到來。
14. They Don’t Hang Out with Toxic People
不和“有毒”的人混在一起
Positive people don’t let negative, toxic people drag them down. Instead, they surround themselves with other positive people who are fun and inspiring to be with. Why should a positive person spend their time with a person who complains about everything and gossips about everybody? Positive people know there is no good answer to that question.
積極的人不會讓消極思想的人們把他們拖下水。相反，他們會讓周圍聚集一羣積極有趣有激情的人們。積極的人爲何要花時間去和總是不斷抱怨不斷八卦的人在一起呢？當然這個問題沒有完美的答案。
不指望天上掉餡餅
Positive people don’t fall for “lose weight fast” or “get rich quick” scams. They know that anything worth having requires hard work (often, lots of it). Positive people are comfortable with the fact that achieving success might take a bit longer than they would like (but will be so worth it).
9. They Don’t Get Bored
不會覺得無聊
Boredom is a place where creativity, inspiration, and productivity die. Positive people are fascinated by everything around them. They explore the world with enthusiasm and curiosity, asking as many questions as they can. On a similar note, fun fact: did you know you have atoms in your body that were created in a star 13 billion years ago? True story (so you don’t get to be bored).
無聊扼殺創造力、激情和效率。積極的人會對周圍的一切感到驚喜。他們帶着激情和好奇去探索世界，問着各類問題。同樣有趣的事實：你知道體內有一些分子是13億年前就已經出現的麼？ 是真的哦！（你永遠都不會覺得無聊了）。
10. They Don’t Let Negative Thoughts Hijack Their Brain
不會讓消極的思想侵佔大腦
Positive people don’t subject themselves to a chorus of self-defeating negative thoughts. When a negative thought passes through their head, they remind themselves: if I wouldn’t say it about another person, I shouldn’t think it about myself.
積極的人才不會讓自己被那些消極的思想打敗呢。當消極的想法出現，他們就會提醒自己，如果我沒有這樣說過別人，我就不應該這麼想自己。
11. They Don’t Make Comparison With Others
不和別人比較
Positive people understand that everyone is different and has his own progress, so they don’t compare themselves to other people. They are confident about what they have and what they do. Instead of focusing on how others are doing, they pay attention on how to improve their own life.
積極的人瞭解每個人都不同，有着自己的成長軌跡，所以從不跟別人對比。他們對自己擁有和從事的一切非常自信。與其花時間關注其他人在幹什麼，他們會更加熱衷於提高自己的生活質量。
12. They Don’t Agonize Over Every Little Mistake
不會爲小錯誤糾結
Positive people don’t look at failure as a terrible thing to avoid at all costs. They know that failure is a possibility when it comes to trying anything new. Seeing failure for what it is (a learning opportunity and nothing more) helps positive people achieve massive success as they learn and grow.
積極的人不會因爲把失敗看成極度恐怖的事情而不惜一切代價去避免。他們知道嘗試任何一件事都會有失敗的可能。把失敗看淡（比如看成一次學習的機會或者根本就沒什麼大不了）能讓積極的人在學習成長的過程中獲得更大的成功。
13. They Don’t Think Life Is Perfect
不會覺得生活是完美的
Positive people forget about perfection, because it’s just not possible. When is the last time you thought, “Wow, this is the perfect day to get in shape,” or “You know what? This is the day I quit my job, move to Santa Fe, and pursue my real passion?” Oh, that’s right: you didn’t, because there isn’t a “perfect time” to do anything. Positive people take action in the here and now, perfection be damned.
積極的人不苛求完美，因爲世上本無完美可言啊。“哇，今天真是適合健身的完美日子啊！” 或者“你知道麼，就是今天，我要辭職搬到聖達菲起，追求我真正的夢想去了！” 上次這麼想是什麼時候來着？好像沒有對吧，因爲做任何事都不會有一個“完美的時機”。積極的人會立即行動，而不是亟待完美時機的到來。
14. They Don’t Hang Out with Toxic People
不和“有毒”的人混在一起
Positive people don’t let negative, toxic people drag them down. Instead, they surround themselves with other positive people who are fun and inspiring to be with. Why should a positive person spend their time with a person who complains about everything and gossips about everybody? Positive people know there is no good answer to that question.
積極的人不會讓消極思想的人們把他們拖下水。相反，他們會讓周圍聚集一羣積極有趣有激情的人們。積極的人爲何要花時間去和總是不斷抱怨不斷八卦的人在一起呢？當然這個問題沒有完美的答案。
