80後好男人不會做這11件事

We've all been in relationships where, at times, we've felt more like a mom or a secretary than a significant other. While we understand that healthy relationships require compromises, we've compiled a list of favors that good boyfriends know better than to consistently request. If you're constantly taking on any of the items on this list (especially with any hint of resentment), it's time to get your guy to lend a

1. His laundry
Pairing your socks isn't exactly our idea of a stay-at-home date, nor does living with you make us a 1950s housewife. A good compromise is for one partner to sort and start the laundry and the other to fold and put it away. Plus, studies show that helping around the house increases a man's chances of getting laid. So, how 'bout that pile of dishes? If you clean up the sink while we tackle the living room, we'll get to the bedroom twice as fast.
你幫他洗衣服
好男人不會強求你成爲上個世紀60年代的家庭主婦，讓你爲他洗衣服，疊衣服，還是一人一半。事實證明，兩個人共同分擔家務是一件好事。

2. Buy gifts and cards for other people on his behalf
We'll help when we're out with you, but no, we won't make a pit stop at Hallmark and Laura Ashley while we're shopping with the girls. Just because we're women doesn't mean we're automatically adept at figuring out your Aunt Martha's dress size.
幫他買送給朋友的禮物或卡片
雖然女人天生喜歡逛街，但是我們沒義務知道你姑姑衣服的尺寸，幫她買。

3. Plan an entire vacation without his help
When we ask you whether you'd rather spend our anniversary in Cabo or Vermont, we want you to express an actual preference, not to say, "Whatever, I'm happy with what makes you happy." The same goes for the hotel, the airline, and the restaurant reservations. Letting us take the reins isn't considerate, it's just lazy and boring. Instead, make sure to divvy up the planning. We pick the location and hotel, you plan the activities.
讓你一個人準備假期
當女人問你，“去哪個州度假好？”的時候，請不要敷衍地說“都可以”。訂酒店和飛機都是這樣。

4. Make him a sandwich
The refrigerator is 10 feet away and your game control has a pause button, so get up, stretch, and slap that ham and lettuce together by yourself. We don't care if you're "in the zone," because apparently, you were out of it long enough to articulate your immediate need for a nibble. Maybe we'll consider it if you agree to break from the game for 20 minutes, put on some coffee, and enjoy your afternoon snack with us.
給他做一個三明治
冰箱就在你的邊上，你的遊戲軟件上有暫停鍵，所以，男人，你就略微起來一下，伸下手就夠着你的三明治了。

5. Change your relationship status on Facebook
We believe our life outside of the Internet should speak for itself. On the off-chance that we break up, wouldn't you rather tell your close friends in person, rather than have that ever-present broken heart appear on 500 people's newsfeeds? Well, we would, so don’t even ask us to include our relationship status on Facebook in the first place.
分手的時候，不會立馬在網上改變自己的婚姻狀況欄
我們知道，現實生活中，事情發生了就無法挽回了，但是你何必要在網上向所有人公佈這個消息而讓我難受呢？

6. Be his wake-up call
If we wanted a newborn, we'd just pierce the condom. Kidding! But really, buy an alarm clock. Remembering a man's nap and wakeup schedule should be an occasional favor, not an everyday
當他的鬧鈴
男人，去買一個鬧鐘吧，偶爾叫醒你們是我們的意願，但我們不想成爲鬧鐘。

7. Take care of his drunk friends
We'll help them hail cabs or drive them home, but our couch really shouldn't be a post-happy-hour crash pad.
照顧男人醉酒的朋友
我們無法幫你幫醉酒的朋友扶上計程車，或是把他們送回家，當然我們更不希望自己的沙發成爲他們發酒瘋的受害者。

8. Hang out with his ex
Some women like befriending the ex, and others just want to satisfy their curiosity about her, but don't pressure the ones who would rather keep a
與前任偷偷約會
很多女人喜歡勾搭自己的前任，或者只是爲了滿足一種莫名的好奇心，但是不要強迫那些不想和你再有聯繫的人了。

9. Keep up with his favorite shows
How would you like it if we made you religiously watch Desperate Housewives? Instead, let's pick a show we both like and make sure we follow it
一心關注自己感興趣的節目
如果女人讓你和她一起看《絕望主婦》，你會怎麼想呢？

10. Lose weight
We'll tone up for health purposes and for ourselves, but if you're really concerned about the 5 lbs we gained over the holidays, don't flat-out complain that we're getting flabby. Instead, invite us to go biking with you or to take a yoga class together. Treat exercise as a fun activity we can do together instead of something that we should do just for
讓女人減肥
我們常常會在假期中不小心體重上升，但是隻要健康就好了，請不要總是抱怨。你可以和我一起騎自行車鍛鍊，或者去練瑜伽。

11. Keep our hair long
Trust us, short hair is cute, fun, and just as feminine as back-length hair. Just look at Halle Berry, Audrey Tautou and Keira Knightley, circa 2005. It's not as if we're going to shave it off or sport one of Rihanna's hairstyles, but even if we did, we hope you'd find us just as attractive.
一定要女人留長髮
短髮也有短髮的好處，簡單，可愛，活潑，我們並不是要剃掉她，就算我們有一天想這樣做了，請相信我們還是美麗的。