18種相處方式 爲愛情增加更多樂趣

Laughter and fun can breathe new life into your romance and relationship. Let’s explore ways to Bring more fun into your romance!
笑聲和樂趣會讓你的愛情和戀愛關係得到新生。讓我們來看一下能讓你的愛情更有趣的幾種方式吧！

A couple that can laugh together will have a better chance of weathering the hard times. Laughter makes us all happier too. When you can laugh easily with your spouse life just seems better. Good things happen in your body when you laugh as well!
能在一起開心大笑的兩個人更有可能一起面對困難時期，笑聲能讓我們更加開心。當你和愛人一起很容易就笑時，你的生活會更加美好。當你笑時你的身體也會變好！

First off, it is essential that you have a date night with your significant other every week. Your relationship with this person needs to be handled with care and you both owe each other that time to nurture it.
首先，和愛人每週來一次約會之夜至關重要。你們的關係也需要仔細處理，你們都需要時間來培養感情。

Make it a rule that during that time you avoid talking about kids and work. This night is about the two of you and your relationship. You may not feel you have one outside of those two topics but you do. You got together for a reason and date night helps you remember and reinforce that reason.
制定一條規則，在約會時不要談論孩子和工作。這一晚是屬於你們兩個和你們之間愛情的。你可能覺得除了這兩個話題之外，就沒有其他的可談了，實際上你有。你們兩個能在一起是有原因的，約會之夜能幫助你記起並鞏固你們在一起的原因。

Not sure what to talk about outside of work and kids? Start by reminiscing about the early days and years. Then as you continue to have date nights and bring more fun into your romance you will have more positive shared experiences between the two of you to draw on for conversation.
不知道除了工作和孩子外還能談什麼？ 可以先從回憶早年的時光開始。然後隨着約會之夜逐漸增多，往你的愛情中注入的樂趣也越來越多，你們之間會有更多美好的共同經歷，這些經歷可以作爲談話的內容。

Try to avoid conflict discussions as well. Use this time to nurture your relationship, not cause more tension. Address those topics at a separate time, but keep date night sacred.
記得要避免能發生衝突的討論。利用這段時間培養你們的感情，而不是讓你們的關係更加緊張。找單獨的時間來談論這些話題，但是要讓約會之夜保持神聖。

Bring more fun into your romance this week with one of these ideas:
本週就用下面的這幾種方法，爲你的愛情注入更多的樂趣吧。

1. The basic dinner and a movie can be fun. Try a new restaurant and then go see a comedy or an interesting indie movie together.
吃頓晚餐、看場電影就很有趣。嘗試新飯店， 然後一起看場喜劇或有趣的獨立製作的電影。

2. Enjoy a weekend away together. Even if you don’t leave your city, a weekend away brings a fresh perspective and fun, new experiences weekend.
一起遠行共度週末。即使你不離開所在的城市，週末遠行也會給你們帶來全新的視角，帶來很多樂趣和新的經歷。

3. Attend a comedy show together.
一起觀看喜劇表演。

4. Go ice skating in the winter.
冬天去溜冰。

5. Play charades. Have another couple over to make it even more fun. Once in awhile, a couples’ date night is a great way to shake things up (in a good way).
玩啞謎。邀請另外一對來一起玩會更加有趣。時不時來一次四人約會是一種很好的方式去改變（好的改變）。

6. Rent a tandem bicycle at your local park.
在本地的公園租一輛雙人自行車。

7. Dress up in silly costumes for an event. Not sure what type of event you would dress up for? Try one of these excuses:
爲某一活動穿上搞笑的戲服。不知道可以穿上戲服參加哪種類型的活動？試試下面的這幾種:

Renaissance festival 文藝復興藝術節

To see an 80s band 去看80年代樂隊的演出

To take part in a murder mystery live action game 參加神祕謀殺案現場動作遊戲

Attend a costume ball 參加化裝舞會

8. Visit the spa together to get a couples’ massage or pedicure.
一起前往水療中心，做情侶按摩或修腳。

9. Find a local outdoor hot spring to enjoy. Some are even clothing optional after dark!
享受本地的室外溫泉。有的溫泉天黑後可以不穿衣服！

10. Laugh in the bedroom more (find each others’ ticklish spots).
在臥室裏笑。（撓癢癢）

11. Cultivate inside jokes in your relationship. Come up with special names for each other or a 1 word reference to a humorous event that will make you both smile.
找幾個你們倆的內部笑話。爲對方起特別的名字，或用一個詞代指能讓你們都笑起來的幽默活動。12. Do the date activities you wanted to as a kid or teen:
做一些在你孩提時或青少年時想做的約會活動：

Attend a county fair 去趕集

Play paintball together 一起玩彩彈球

Play laser tag 一起玩激光束遊戲

Rent a paddle boat at a local lake 在當地的湖中租一艘划槳船

Go to an amusement park 去遊樂園玩

Have a water balloon or water gun fight 玩水球或水槍

Draw chalk pictures on the sidewalk 在人行道上用粉筆畫畫

Go roller skating 滑旱冰

13. Sing together. (Karaoke at home anyone?)
一起唱歌（在家裏唱卡拉OK）

14. Surprise your significant other with some new lingerie.
用一些新的內衣來給愛人帶來驚喜。

15. Take up dancing together: ballroom, salsa, or country. Take your pick and get a free lesson at a local dance studio or bar.
一起跳舞：交際舞、薩爾薩舞曲或鄉村舞。和舞伴一起在當地的舞蹈排練廳或舞廳上一次免費的課程。

16. Cook a themed dinner together.
一起準備主題晚餐。

17. Rent a convertible for the weekend and enjoy some beautiful scenic drives together.
週末租一輛敞篷車，共同享受一下美麗的沿途風景。

18. Visit a local winery or wine shop for a free tasting.
參觀當地的酒廠或酒店免費品酒。