心靈雞湯:我們需要朋友 We Need Friends

【編輯語】朋友的定義是什麼？小編曾經聽過一個講座，演講者說：“爲什麼我們要交朋友？因爲我們有愛要奉獻。我們有多少愛要奉獻，我們就會交多少朋友。”但這並不意味着朋友是單方面的給予或單方面的接受。沒有人會成爲社會上的“孤島”，每個人都需要有朋友。

The word, friend, covers a wide range of meanings. It can be a nodding acquaintance, a comrade, a confidant, a partner, a playmate, an intimate colleague, etc.

“朋友”這個詞的意義很廣。朋友可以是點頭之交、同志、知已、夥伴、玩伴、親密的同事等。

Everyone needs friendship. No one can sail the ocean of life single-handed. We need help from, and also give help to, others. In modern times, people attach more importance to relations and connections. A man of charisma has many friends. His power lies in his ability to give.

人人都需要友誼，沒有人能獨自在人生的海洋中航行。我們給人以幫助，也需要別人的幫助。在現代社會，人們更重視關係和聯繫。一個有非凡魅力的人有許多朋友，他的力量在於他的奉獻能力。

As life is full of strife and conflict, we need friends to support and help us out of difficulties. Our friends give us warnings against danger. Our friends offer us advice with regard to how do deal with various situations. True friends share not only our joys but also our sorrows.

生活充滿矛盾和鬥爭，我們需要朋友的支持，以幫助我們擺脫困境。朋友提醒我們警惕險灘。朋友主動給我們以忠告，告訴我們如何應付各種不同的局勢。真正的朋友與我們同甘共苦。

With friendship, life is happy and harmonious. Without friendship, life is sad and unfortunate. I have friends in high positions and friends in the rank and file. Some are rich and in power. Some are relatively poor and without power. Some are like myself, working as a teacher, reading and writing, content with a simple life. We all care for each other, love and help each other. We feel we are happiest when we chat and exchange ideas with one another. With my friends, I know what to treasure, what to tolerate and what to share.

有了友誼，生活幸福、和諧；沒有友誼，生活變得悲傷、不幸。我有地位高的朋友，也有地位低的朋友；有的有錢有權，有的較窮且無權無勢。有的和我一樣教書，讀讀寫寫，滿足於簡樸的生活。我們都互相關心，互相愛護，互相幫助。我們覺得跟朋友們在一起閒談交流思想是最開心的。對我的朋友們，我知道該珍惜什麼，容忍什麼，分享什麼。

I will never forget my old friends, and I’ll keep making new friends. I will not be cold and indifferent to my poor friends, and I will show concern for them, even if it is only a comforting word.

我決不會忘記老朋友，同時我也會繼續結交新朋友。我對窮朋友絕不冷漠，而是會關心他們，哪怕只是一句安慰的話。