勇敢做自己會帶來的十大好處(下)

confidence will show

5.你的自信將會展現出來

"Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence." – Helen Keller

"樂觀是通往成功的真諦，缺乏希望和自信將一事無成。" ——海倫·凱勒

When you love who you are and have no problem with who you are, confidence Is guaranteed to show up. Lack of confidence shows up when you're happy with yourself, your character, and because you feel inadequate. But someone who loves who they are, and goes about this daily has an unstoppable amount of self confidence. And that's attractive which ever way you slice the cake!

當你愛真正的自己，且覺得自己現在一切都好時，你就有自信了。正是因爲你覺得自己不夠好，所以纔對自身和性格感到不滿足，進而缺乏自信。但那些愛自己的人，在日常生活中會有源源不斷的自信心。這樣一來，不管你用什麼方式展現自己，你都會非常有魅力！

dy can hold anything against you

4.沒有人可以反駁你

If you know you're speaking your truth and nothing but your truth, nobody can hold that against you. It's not possible. People will only hold something against you If you give them reason to, or If there's blatant proof. Be yourself, keep it real, speak your truth, then nobody will be able to hold anything against you. No matter what!

如果你說的是真話，那麼，沒有人能反駁你，也根本不可能想要反駁你。只有當你給他們的理由或證據太過蒼白無力時，他們纔會跟你辯駁。請做自己，信守真誠，堅持說真話，那麼不管發生什麼事情，都不會有人跟你唱反調！

won't have anything to prove

3.你將不需要證明任何東西

If you have to prove your honesty to somebody, chances are you've already lost the battle. When you have to prove something It usually means you're not capable of doing it. When you know who you are and what you stand for, trying to Impress others Is irrelevant. Leave the "proving" to those who feel It's necessary.

如果你必須向某人證明你的誠信，那麼，你可能已經失去別人對你的信任了；如果你必須要證明一些東西，那麼，這也就意味着你難以成事了。當你清楚你是誰以及你代表着什麼的時候，你纔不會把別人看得那麼重要，而"證明"，就留給那些覺得有必要的人吧！

'll attract the right friends

2.你將會吸引志趣相投的朋友

If you go through your whole life feeling like a faker, being a faker, and living a lie, your friends will reflect that. Like they say, you are what you're around and there's a lot of truth to that. If you want to have honest friends who aren't afraid to keep it real, maybe you need to work on yourself first. Only then will you attract the right friends. If you're already honest as it is, but your friends are the opposite, maybe you need to meet some new people.

如果你覺得自己這輩子都像個騙子一樣謊話連篇，那麼，你的朋友也會滿口胡言。正如人們所說，物以類聚，人以羣分，事實也確實如此。如果你想要擁有能夠直面真理、內心坦蕩的朋友，或許你就得先讓自己成爲這樣的人。只有當你敢於面對現實時，你才能夠吸引真正的朋友。如果你是一個能夠正視現實的人，而你的朋友們恰恰相反，那麼，你也許需要結交新朋友了。

'll be happier

1.你將會更加開心

"If you want to be happy, be." – Leo Tolstoy

"如果你想要變開心，那就去做吧。" ——列夫托爾斯泰

The most happy years in my life, including today, have been a result of doing the things I want to do. Being the person I'm meant to be. Doing the things I believe in. And most importantly, being honest with myself. If you're constantly doing things to make others happy, but not yourself, you're bound to stress yourself out. You've got to put your happiness first before anything else.

從以前到今時今日，我這一生之所以快樂，皆因我做了自己真正想做的事情，成爲自己想要成爲的那個人，在做自己相信的事情，而最重要的是，我忠於自己。如果你總是去做會讓別人開心而不會讓自己開心的事情，那麼你一定會把自己折磨死。你一定要將自己的快樂擺在首位，其他事情則次之。

翻譯:玥 審校:阿飯 來源: 前十網