教你做個無處不優雅的女人

We can easily stumble through life without considering how our lack of manners and sloppiness affect others. To be elegant is not to be snobbish, but rather to be polished, charitable and discreet. Making the effort to be elegant means caring about how our manners and appearance affect others.
或許，我們在生活中常常會某些女性看見有這樣的現象，也許她的行爲並不會影響到任何人，但是讓人見了卻是十分不舒服的。女人的優雅並不這麼簡單，有些優雅，卻是需要你關注細節的：

Step 1 Practice the art of conversation. Create a list of intriguing topics that you'd feel comfortable talking about with others. Even if you know little about a subject, you can pose questions for others to respond to.
無論坐在哪裏，都希望你不要盤腿大坐或者翹起“二郎腿”，請保持坐姿儘量優雅但又不會露點。

Step 2 Listen quietly without interrupting. It's one of the most polished, discreet and charitable acts you can perform for anyone. We all want to be listened to with respect, and this one act will set you apart as someone who understands the nature of elegance.
無論在哪裏，都儘量不要大聲喧譁，灑脫的性情，既是對別人的尊重，也是對自己形象的尊重

Step 3 Live gracefully. This simply means slowing down, taking your hand off the car horn, practicing patience, waiting your turn and looking for opportunities to enjoy the moment. In stores and restaurants, thank the people who served you.|
無論你怎樣着急，也儘量不要快速奔跑，注意衣服整齊，不要讓頭髮被風吹亂。

Step 4 Understand that you're setting an example even when you think no one's looking or listening. Appreciate the fact that you can inspire and encourage others by your choices and actions.
　　無論在何時何地，你都要儘量保持優雅，不要讓別人尷尬或者感到不舒服，這不僅是對自己的愛護，也是對他人的一種尊重。

Step 5 Wear appropriate clothing, depending upon the event. Even the most expensive and elegant high heels don't belong on a fishing trip or picnic. Think about your daily and seasonal activities and buy the right clothing well ahead of time.
無論怎樣匆忙，出門前，也希望你能夠照一照鏡子，看自己的梳妝是否合理整齊;

Step 6 Walk tall. Your well-made clothes will look better, and you'll feel more alert and polished, if you sit, stand and walk with correct posture.
無論家裏平時怎樣，希望來客人的時候，你能夠認真清理乾淨，讓客人儘量舒服。