男票速來學習 博得女孩芳心的10大竅門
1 Being able to banter when you first start talking to a girl is one of the Most important and effective ways to get her attention right away.
第一次跟女孩兒搭訕時，讓她注意到你的最重要且有效的方法就是開玩笑。
Once you've bantered for a couple minutes, it's alright to switch gears and talk about something a little bit more serious or personal.
開過幾分鐘玩笑後，是時候轉換話題了，跟她談論一點稍稍嚴肅或私人的話題。
Showing her that you've got the contrast between playfulness and seriousness will show you to be a guy who is multi-faceted, not a one-note Johnny.
讓她感受到你既有趣又認真，是個性格多樣而非單調無趣的人。
2 For whatever reason, nothing screams neediness in a guy more than a huge, gleaming, ear to ear smile.
不管原因是什麼，那種從左耳朵笑到右耳朵、笑到滿臉褶子的燦爛笑容對男人來說真的一點也不必要。
Think of smirking as the smile's more seductive, more confident older brother.
想想看，那種自鳴得意的壞笑才更誘人，更像個自信的哥哥。
It's otherwise known as the eye smile, and it's extremely effective at communicating your feelings non-verbally.
這種笑又被稱爲用眼鏡笑，在交談中微笑不用言語就能很好的傳遞你的感受。
It's alright to practice in the mirror for a few minutes.
你可以在鏡子前練習幾分鐘。
Once you've got this down by yourself, it'll be time to try it out in real life.
當你搞定了自己的笑容，你就可以在現實中大顯身手了。
3 Offering an original compliment is a really effective way to flirt.
新穎的讚美是調情的有效法寶。
You can all but guarantee the girl you're trying to talk to has heard most of the more clichéd compliments dozens of times over the better part of her adult life.
與其說一些陳詞濫調的讚美讓女孩毫無感覺，還不如嘗試讚美她一些更微妙的方面，這會給她很特別的感覺。
4 A man who pays attention to detail and remembers the little things will always go further than his less-observant peers.
一個注重細節和記住小事的男人總是比粗心大條的人更勝一籌。
So if you're chatting up a girl, especially one you've just met, pay attention to the little things and try to casually mention them later on.
當你跟初次見面的女孩閒聊時，關注一些小事，在後面的交往中不經意地提起。
This will show her that you're different than most of the guys she talks to -- which will go a long way.
女孩會覺得你與其他男孩不同，這將有助於進一步交往。
5 When guys are starting to hit it off with a girl they're interested in, a lot of the time they get worried that if they let the conversation die or let her out of their sight for a moment, she'll lose interest.
當男孩和自己感興趣的女孩相處合拍時，經常會擔心談話中冷場或將女孩晾在一邊會讓女孩失去興趣。
Most of the time, this couldn't be further from the truth.
大多數時候，這月事實相去甚遠。
If things are going well, don't be afraid to leave her with a cliffhanger and excuse yourself for a moment.
如果一切進展順利，別擔心驚險刺激的情節中離開她一會兒。
It will make you come off as a lot more confident than trying to drag on the conversation long enough to rival the ending of a Lord of the Rings film.
試着拖延談話時間就像看指環王電影的大結局，失陪片刻會顯得你更有自信。
6 If you ask any woman out there the qualities that she looks for in a man, you can all but guarantee a sense of humor is going to be on the list -- and for many, it's near the top.
如果問任何一個女人看中男人哪些品質，幽默感肯定榜上有名，並且接近榜首。
7 One thing that a lot of guys forget to do or are afraid to do when flirting with women is to add a little seduction into the conversation.
在調情中說些誘惑的話是很多男人忘記或害怕做的一件事。
Tension is a huge aphrodisiac and a great thing to take advantage of when you are flirting.
當你在調情是，氣氛緊張是一劑大大的春藥，它能讓你佔到大便宜。
This will serve as somewhat of a test.
這將作爲一個測試。
8 If she doesn't respond after a minute, you should probably go back to what you were doing before -- but if she does, it may be a sign she wants to escalate things physically.
如果她一分鐘後還沒有迴應，你就當什麼都沒發生過。但是如果她有迴應，這可能是她希望提升彼此關係的一個信號。
9 The "triangle look" is by far the best thing you can do when you're connecting with a woman and you're ready to take things to the next level.
迄今爲止，三點視是雙方關係準備進入下一層次時男女交流的最好方法。
Here's how it works: Once you've already had some light banter and you're pretty certain things are going well, try looking into one eye, then the other eye, then down to her lips, and back to her eyes.
看看它是如何起作用的：輕鬆的逗笑過後，在你能確定氣氛很好的情況下，試着注視她的一隻眼睛，然後另外一隻，然後往下看她的嘴脣，再回到她的雙眼。
Finish it off with a little smirk.
然後以一個壞笑結束以上動作。
10 It's no secret that girls like to feel special.
衆所周知，女孩們都喜歡感到自己很特別。
If we're being honest here, so do guys.
坦率地講，男人們也是如此。
Deep down, each and every one of us wants to believe that we really are unique, attractive, and interesting.
本質上，我們每個人都願意相信自己是獨一無二、有吸引力和風趣的。
Before you go off ignoring your surroundings and pretending there's nothing else in the universe at that moment besides her, you want to make sure she knows that you are a valuable, interesting person yourself.
和她在一起時，你要忽略周圍的存在，並裝作眼裏只有她一人，但在這之前，你一定要讓她瞭解到你本人是個值得珍惜並且有趣的人。
