情人節特輯I：單身貴族的情人節

天使們！馬上就要情人節了！興奮嗎？期待嗎？哈哈哈哈哈~反正我是不期待的了。

於是英語君決定今天要給你們好好地科學地解釋單身的好處。

Anyone who lives alone and manifests no longing to be in a relationship is in our times almost automatically viewed as over, they think that it is simply not possible to be at once alone and set us up for collective catastrophe,because it means that a huge number of people who have no wish to live with anyone worse,they are under press and pressure, then they are shamed into conjugal life（婚姻生活） doubt that they are with disastrous results for all involved. Only once singlehood has completely equal prestige with its alternative can we ensure that people will be free in their hence,they can join couples for the right reasons because they love another person ,rather than because they are terrified of remaining single.

在這個時代，不想戀愛的獨居人士總被人默默視爲可憐而有問題的人，人們認爲單身絕對不可能是正常人。這使得一大撥人難以倖免，因爲有很多人打心底不想和別人在一起。然而，很大一部分的單身人士卻迫於壓力，滿懷愧疚地發展戀愛關係甚至進入婚姻殿堂。最終雙方都落得傷痕累累。只有人們像重視婚姻一樣重視單身生活時才能保證人們擁有自由的選擇權，以合理的原因投入一段感情，也就是“愛”而不是人們害怕單身。

Here, are a few of the many good reasons to spend your life alone.

以下就是保持單身的好處：

ntic love is a dangerous illusion.

浪漫愛情只是泡沫。

We should recognize that romantic love,the idea of being deeply enamored with one special partner over a whole lifetime is a very new, ambitious and really pretty odd close-up ,over periods of time ,almost everyone is condemned to be pretty dispiriting and difficult.A good romantic marriage is evidently theoretically may also be extremely unlikely in practice.,which should make any failure feel a good deal less shameful.

我們應該認識到：浪漫愛情也就是深愛着自己的那個人會矢志不渝，只是一個過分自信又奇怪的新生概念。時間一長，經過仔細的觀察，就會發現每個人都難以相處，令人失望。顯然，浪漫婚姻在理論上可行，但卻難以在實際生活中實現。因此，戀情失敗也就情有可原了

Those among us who chose to stay single shouldn’t be thought ed ,we may be among the very most romantic of all, because it is in the end the fervent romantics who should be especially careful of ending up in boring relationships.

選擇單身的人並非缺乏浪漫細胞，事實上,我們也可能非常浪漫。因爲到最後，只有最浪漫的人才需提防自己和對方變得無趣。

aren’t sane enough to be in relationships.

面對感情，我們還不夠理智。

Though it is a sign of some maturity to know how to love and live alongside someone, it is actually a sign of even greater to recognize that this is something that one isn’t in the end gotta be psychologically really capable of，as a good portion of us simply aren’ that cases, we retire ourselves voluntarily ,in order to save others from the terrible consequences ,or it is called bad ending.

學會去愛固然是成熟的體現，但是意識到一段感情遠超自己的心理承受能力更能體現成熟，因爲有些人的確承受不來。在這種情況下，我們主動選擇退出，使他人和自己免受傷害。這可能是一種偉大和善良的體現吧。

g alone means not inflicting yourself on others.

單身意味着不讓別人遭罪。

However, being alone means not inflicting ourselves on spares us from constant reminders of how difficult and strange we are!No one is there to hold a mirror up-record your antics and constantly make you accountable for them. If you ‘re lucky, you will be able to tolerate and even like yourself if you are on your own.

單身後，你就不會老想着自己多麼奇葩而不近人情。沒人會舉着鏡子，追蹤你的一舉一動，對你的所作所爲指指點點。獨自一人時，你能忍受自己、喜歡自己。

其實，我們真的不必擔心，二十歲的關口，還算是年輕的！也沒有哪一條規定你一定得結婚，即使單身一人，我們也可以將自己的生活過的有滋有味呢。如果沒能遇見愛的人，那麼餘生就讓我們自己酷下去吧！
  

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