尋找完美戀人的10個最佳方式(圖)

10. “Can I buy you a drink?”
Asking for another drinkIf you are really serious about finding the person of your dreams, go out and look for him or her. One of the easiest ways to find your your Mr. or Ms. Perfect is to hang out in a bar. You will never find your would-be significant other inside your kitchen cupboard. Go out, have fun and meet people. There are many reasons why this is effective. First, this is where guys and girls who love to have fun go and if you’re that type, you just might find someone meant for you here. Second, alcohol gives you enough courage and confidence to make the first move. Some of the greatest love stories do not even get a chance to start because both people are afraid to approach and introduce themselves to each other. What a shame.
Why you should do it: Even if you don’t meet anyone, you still had your booze. Nothing to lose!
10. "我能請你喝一杯嗎？“
假如你真的想找到自己的夢中情人，那麼，就到外面找樂子，同時找目標。最簡單的方法就是在酒吧邂逅。在自家廚房是絕對找不到夢中情人的。得外出找樂並結識他人。很多理由都可證明這是很有效的方法。首先，酒吧是男生女生的玩樂的好地方，而如果你恰好也是這一類人，或許你就能遇到你的他或她。其次，酒精會使你勇氣百倍，信心十足，促使你踏出勇敢的一步。那些悽美的愛情故事還沒來得及開始就結束了就是因爲兩個人都羞於主動接近和毛遂自薦。真是可惜了！

這麼做的理由：即使你沒邂逅他人，你也沒什麼損失，因爲你也樂在其中了。

9. “Hi. ASL?”
Chatting on the internetOn second thought, you can still look for the person of your dreams without leaving your house. All you need is a good Internet connection. Cyberspace has become an active social world for romance-seekers all over the planet. People who are looking for love sometimes find themselves surfing the net, logging in some networking sites or entering chat rooms, hoping to find the person of their dreams. Although it is regarded as absurd by some people, we cannot deny the fact that there are successful love stories that started through the Internet. In cyberspace, you’ll find all sorts of people; it is impossible not to find someone who at least matches your taste. What is harder to accomplish is finding a person who suits you AND who is serious about meeting people on the web. Yes, the Internet bridges people from all over the world and allows them to find true love in an instant. You have to remember, however, that cyberspace is not the safest place in the world to meet the person of your dreams. Without proper discretion and care, your dream romance can turn into a nightmare. You have to explore cyberspace carefully.
Why you should do it: Who cares? Everyone does it anyway.
9.”嗨，性別，年齡和所在地？“
再三思量，你足不出戶也可以找到自己的夢中情人。你所要的只是一根網線。網絡已經成爲全球愛情的活躍世界。那些在尋找愛情的人有時卻發現自己是在上網，登陸網站，或進入聊天室，期冀能遇上自己的夢中情人。雖然在有些人認爲這有點荒唐，但是不可否認很多愛情故事都是在網絡中誕生。在網絡世界，你可以遇到各式各樣的人，你總能找到符合自己品味的人。困難的是你很難找到適合自己的，並對見網友持認真態度的人。是的，網絡爲世界各地的人搭建了橋樑，並讓人們在第一時間找到真愛成爲現實。但沒有正確的方向和態度，你的浪漫之夢會成爲噩夢。你必須謹慎地上網。

這麼做的理由：誰在乎呢？每個人都玩這個。

8. “Peace be with you.”
Giving a peace signReligious differences are sometimes blamed for unsuccessful relationships. If you want to be sure that you will be spiritually compatible with the person you want to meet, go to a church, synagogue, temple or wherever your religion has for a place of worship. This situation has a couple of advantages. First, religious difference will not be an issue. Second, you are sure that the person is spiritually healthy and responsible. If you feel guilty about doing this, don’t be. It is not like you are doing a blasphemous act. You are just practicing your religion, and while you are at it, why not do some multi-tasking? You want to find the person of your dreams? Praying might be a big help. Just don’t hike your skirt a little higher while you do it.
Why you should do it: Hey, God said, “Be fruitful and multiply.” You’re just being obedient.
8. “心存一方淨土。”
宗教上的分歧有時會導致戀情的失敗。假如你想確認你和他是否在精神信仰上一致，那麼去基督教堂，猶太教堂，寺廟等能祭拜你宗教信仰的地方。這種方法有一定的優勢。首先，宗教信仰分歧就不會是個問題了。其次，這樣你 可以由此確定你感興趣的人在精神上是健康的，並且是個負責任的人。如果你覺得這麼做你會有內疚感，那就大可不必。因爲你這麼做不是在褻瀆神靈。你只是在實踐自己的信仰，而既然你都這麼做了，那爲什麼不一石二鳥呢？你要找到自己的夢中情人？那麼去做禱告吧，記得禱告時別把裙子往上拉。

這麼做的理由：嘿，上帝說：”要豐收多產。“你只是遵循指示而已。

7. “Is this seat taken?”
Studying togetherYou are looking for the person of your dreams? Go to school and study. Yes, your one true love might be that geeky-looking guy sitting beside you in your Molecular Biology and Biotechnology class. We have seen this scene in many movies and we will see a couple more. The classroom is a usual place for romantic relationships to develop. If your university days are over, then do the search in your world — the workplace
Why you should do it: You need inspiration at school or in the workplace, right?
7.“我可以坐這兒嗎？”
你正在尋找你的夢中情人嗎？去學校學習吧。是的，你的真愛或許就是上分子生物和生物技術課時，坐在你身旁的那個書呆子。我們曾經無數次在銀幕中看到這麼一齣戲，而我們也能預見未來的一對。課室通常是發展戀情的一個好場所。但如果你已經畢業了，那麼轉移陣地，在你所工作的地方碰運氣吧。

這麼做的理由：不論在學習還是在工作上，你都需要靈感，不是嗎？

6. “That suits you.”
Finding a bookThe next easiest way to find the person of your dreams is hanging out at your local bookshop, music store and department store. If you’re a girl, stay near the men’s section of the department store. You can tell his personality by the way he shops. Is he impatient? Is he fickle? Is he indecisive? Is he rich? Is he gay? After observing him for quite a while, make your move. Act like you’re buying something for your brother and you need some help. It’s a nice way of starting a conversation.
If you’re a guy, you can also hang out near the women’s section. You have to remember one important thing, though: never stay near the lingerie. You would surely send the wrong signal.
Why you should do it: Shopping is fun so while you’re at it, why not shop for romance, too.?
6. “那很適合你。”

接下來找尋夢中情人的簡易方法就是逛書店，CD店，和百貨商場。如果你是個女孩，你可在男士專區附近逗留。這樣，從他的購物方式，你可以知悉他的個性。他是否耐心？是否善變？是否優柔寡斷？是否有錢？是否是個同性戀？經過一陣的觀察，然後採取行動。假裝你是在買禮物給你的兄弟，並且需要他的幫助。這是建立談話的好方式。如果你是個男生，你也可以在女士專區附近逗留。但必須牢記一點：別在內衣專區徘徊。不然，你肯定會被人誤解。
這麼做的理由：購物是快樂的，那麼，何不在購物的同時尋找獵物呢？

5. “Wow. That’s great. You care about your… colon.”
Enhancing his musclesThey say that before you can ever love someone else fully, you have to love yourself first. That may be a little selfish but there is a hint of truth in that. Anyway, who would not love a person who wants to be healthy and look good. What is the top five easiest way to find the person of your dreams? Visit health stores and gyms.
Don’t be confused, though. It’s a health store, not a drugstore. You don’t want to be dating someone with herpes. Men and women who visit health stores care about their health and overall being — even when they do not feel sick. These are the type of people to tie the knot with — those who make sure that their hearts beat normally and their blood circulates well. These are the people who make sure that when they promise “forever,” they mean “a very long time.”
The gym is also a perfect place to find that darling. It is a room filled with the smell of sweat, hard muscles being stretched and active people who make sure they are physically fit. Doesn’t that turn you on? If not, then work out and someone will surely notice you and your discipline and determination to get fit.
The good thing about health stores and gyms is that even when you do not care about your health and physique, people think that you are a health buff just for being there. Who knows? Some customer might be looking at you, thinking exactly the same thing.
Why you should do it: Tight bottoms, six-packs, sexy curves… Why not?
5. “哇。太棒了。你在意你的。。。結腸。”

人們說在你全心全意愛別人之前，首先得愛自己。這聽起來似乎有點自私，但卻是事實。不管怎樣，誰不想要個有着健康體魄的另一半呢？第五個尋找夢中情人的簡易方法就是去診所或是去健身房。
當然，別弄混了。那是診所，而不是藥店。你肯定不想與得皰疹的人約會。去診所的男人，女人，只是在意自己的健康，即使自身並沒犯病。人們都只想和心跳正常，血液循環流暢的人結婚。因爲當人們說着“永遠”這一誓言的時候，意味着要活得長久。
健身房也是尋找最愛的絕佳場所。健身房裏充溢着健康的氣息，到處到是伸展的肌肉和強健的身體。這引起你的興趣沒？假若沒，那你就健身吧，一定會有人注意到你爲了健康所作的努力。
診所和健身房的好處在於即使你根本沒在意自身的健康和體型，別人總以爲你出現在那是因爲你是個健康愛好者。誰知道呢？說不定一些人正盯着你，打着相同的主意.
這麼做的理由：緊翹的臀，6塊腹肌，S形的身體...何樂而不爲呢？

4. How do I say ‘love’ in your language?
Waiting for a busAs of 2000, the total world population was more than 6 billion. For sure, there is at least one person out there that is meant for you. All that needs to happen is your paths to cross. If you have the money and time, travel. You’ll gain many benefits, such as seeing beautiful places, experience new cultures and meeting new people. One of those people could be the person you’ve been waiting for.
Why you should do it: There’s a lot of fish in the sea. Go for the best catch.
4. 用你們的話怎麼說愛這個詞？
2000年，世界人口超過60億。那麼當中肯定有一個爲你而存在的人。要想故事發生，你們的軌跡必須要有交集。如果你有時間和金錢，那麼去旅遊吧。你會受益良多，如美景盡收眼底，感受不同的文化，和結識不同的人。其中說不定就有一個你一直在等待着的人。
這麼做的理由：海大何患無魚，只要最好那一隻。

3. “Love thy neighbor.”
Waving at her neighborOh yes, God could have meant it literally when he said that. Sometimes, you don’t need to go to a faraway land just to find the person of your dreams. He or she might just be a few feet away. Your Ms. or Mr. Right may be living next door and you have no idea. What is the third easiest way to find true love? Be friendly with your neighbors. You might be surprised that you can go much further than being friends. So what are you waiting for? Bake some cookies. Put them in a basket. Knock on your neighbor’s door. Extend your hospitality with open arms. See what happens. It all starts from there.
Why you should do it: Again, God said so.
3. “愛你的鄰居。”

是的，上帝確實是這麼說的。有時，你不需要去一個遙遠的地方尋找愛情。他或她或許僅在幾步之遙。你的Ms.或t可能就住在隔壁，而你卻一無所知。第三個尋找真愛的簡易方法是什麼呢？即
與你的鄰居和睦相處。你也許會驚訝的發現你們遠不只朋友那麼簡單。那你還等什麼呢？烤些餅乾，放在籃子裏，敲開鄰居的門，伸出你的友誼之手。看看會發生什麼？一切都從這裏開始。
這麼做的理由：再一次，上帝是這麼說的。

2. “I know your heart is good. Can I have it?”

OK, the above quote is cheesy, mushy and pathetic, but at least you get the point.
A Volunteer teacher for kidsNothing is more impressive than seeing someone offering himself to the world. That’s exactly why Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt are hot. Yes, physically, they are already attractive but they are hotter when they are in Vietnam doing charity work.

It’s easy to find a person with a beautiful face. But a person with a beautiful face AND a beautiful heart? That’s a little difficult to find. That’s why, if you are looking for a person who is beautiful inside and out, all you need to do is volunteer. What to volunteer for is tricky. You need to choose very carefully. For example, if you’re a guy, you don’t to be volunteering as a firefighter because there is a very little chance that you will find a woman there. If you’re gay, well, go on, be a volunteer firefighter.
Anyway, the point is, you sure want to spend the rest of your life with someone who cares not just about himself but also everyone. If you volunteer or do some charity work, you will meet selfless people who always put the welfare of others first. If he cares about other people, he surely cares more about the people he or she loves. Don’t you want to be loved by someone like that? When it’s Christmas, dress up like Santa Claus. When disaster strikes, help in the relief program. Come on, do yourself and the world a favor. Volunteer.
Why you should do it: Karma. Good karma.
2. “我知道你心地善良。我能擁有這麼一品質嗎？”
嗯，上面的引用顯得有點感傷，可憐，檔次有點低，但起碼你領悟到了它其中的意思。沒有什麼比對世界貢獻自己的人更能打動別人。這正是安吉利娜茱莉和布拉彼特那麼受歡迎的原因。是的，外表上，他們都是俊男美女，但當他們在越南做慈善工作的時候，卻更有魅力。
要想找個有張漂亮面孔的人是容易的。但要想找個有着漂亮面孔和美麗心靈的人，卻是有點困難。假如你想要找個身心俱美的人，你去當自願者吧。然而去做什麼志願者還是有點技巧的。你得謹慎選擇。比如，你是個男生，你大可不必志願去做消防員，因爲你能找到女生的機會是微乎其微。假如你是同性戀，那麼，就志願去做消防員吧。
不管怎樣，重點是你確定你想共度餘生的人在乎的不僅僅是自己，還包括其他人。 如果你做志願者或做一些慈善工作，你將會遇見一些無私的人，而那些人卻永遠把別人利益排在第一。但如果他在乎別人，那麼他肯定會更在乎他所愛的人。你不想被這麼一個人愛着嗎?聖誕節時，打扮成聖誕老人。災難發生時，加入救援項目。加油，爲自己，爲世界做點貢獻，做志願者吧。
這麼做的理由：好人有好報。

1. “Come find me.”
Waiting for my prince charmingYou can do all the ways mentioned above but you may still end up not finding the person of your dreams. Sometimes, to be able to find your one true love, you don’t need to look for it. All you need is wait and let that person find you. It does not mean, however, that you will lock yourself up in a tower and wait for your Prince Charming to ask you to let down your hair. While you’re waiting, learn to love yourself in all aspects. Take care of your health and make sure you are in good shape. Be optimistic, stay happy and don’t let stress make you look and feel old. Do the things you enjoy doing and celebrate life all the time. Make yourself a better person everyday. In this way, you don’t have to go looking for true love; it will find you effortlessly. Even when you feel that it’s taking too long, live your life without worrying about being alone and lonely. True love comes when you least expect it. When it finally comes, you know you are ready and complete.
Why you should do it: Because you are so damn beautiful.
1.“來找我吧。”
你可能嘗試了以上的種種方法，結果卻仍未見效。有時，想要得到真愛，並不一定要去尋找。你所要做的只是等待，等待別人找到自己。但這並不是說你得把自己關在塔上，等待你的白馬王子出現。在等待過程中，你得學習從各方面愛自己。關注自己的身體，確保自己的體型在最佳的狀態。樂觀，保持開心，別讓壓力折騰地你身心俱疲，老態盡顯。做自己喜歡做的事情，把每一天都當成節日。每一天都提升自己。如此一來，你不需要去尋找真愛，它會毫不費力地找上你。即使你認爲這耗時太長，但你也不要讓孤獨和寂寞煩擾着你。愛情，往往最讓人措手不及。當它降臨了，你就知道你準備好了，那時，你將是個完整的自己。
這麼做的理由：因爲你是如此的美麗。